im in a super weird position. its been a little over a year since i have been on this account but for the last 7-8 months i have been thinking i am a gay, male. but recently i have begin to think my gender and sexuality. but here is the weird thing, i see myself in three completely different identities. so on one hand i see myself as a gay male, on another i see myself as a nonbinary person who is atracted to men, and on another i see myself as a straight up lesbian. like i. i. i dont know. i am not even sure i am attracted to men, like yeah when i am watching porn or masturbating i think of men, but like that is only when i do it and its not like really something i like to do more a way for me to blow off steam… like not something that i look forward to when im not. like i can see myself as a girl or at least more of a feminie person and be with a girl. like i wouldn't want to do anything sexual but i could see myself like kissing and being like super in love with a girl but only when i picture myself female presenting. like i think i like boys bc i am kinda dating a boy rn, its a weird situation, i think we both want to be dating each other but haven't been able to go on enough dates to label the relationship. like i dont know whats going on. pls any advice...
Try and be more fluid about it all. Maybe you’re genderfluid or genderflux. Try not to worry and just enjoy experimenting. Only time will tell you who you are. x