Hey HorizonSea, You are welcome in the community, then, regardless of which label you end up choosing, or even if you prefer to not label yourself at all (that's an option too)! If you wish to discover your orientation, a good start point would be to reflect about your fantasies. What do you feel when you imagine yourself having sex/being married to a man? What about a woman? Do you feel more comfortable with one or another? Maybe both?
I have an attraction towards men (not sexually), but I think I would feel more comfortable with a woman. When I think about marriage/sex with a guy, I get uncomfortable, but with a woman, I don't have those feelings. (Especially, when I see pictures of lesbian couples online)
