So I have been questioning whether or not I am lesbian or not. I have a boyfriend and I feel as if I want to tell him but I don't want to break up if I don't know for sure if I really am this way or not. Leave any ideas down below, or Private message me.
So about your feelings you may be lesbian and about talking to your boyfriend about it: Let's assume you are lesbian. In that case, would you want to end your relationship with your boyfriend? Do you feel you love him? If he was OK with staying with you, would you want that? Do you two share a healthy relationship? Are these thoughts you have about lesbianism in response to a toxic relationship? If you two love each other and everything is great between you two, then maybe taking about these thoughts you are having with your boyfriend might help with mental and or emotional release for you. The important thing is not to rush into any change in your relationship status on a whim. But if you discover later you truly are lesbian, it would be better if he wasn't blindsided out of nowhere with this information so I suggest you first tell him you love him (if you do) and then tell you two need to talk. Explain you are looking for answers and want his help and that above all, you don't want to hurt him. Then tell him about your confusion. I hope all goes well Kitty. Maybe you can help me. I'm alone and sad. Ashley.
I'm sorry that you are alone and sad. Is there anything, in particular, you want me to help you with?
There absolutely is, but I dont know if it is possible. I am so isolated and alone. I want someone that I can talk to and who will not think that I am not worth having around because I have so many mental and emotional issues.
A little more context might be needed, here. What makes you think you might be lesbian? Is it a matter of not having any attraction to your boyfriend, or do you lack attraction to men in general? When you think of women, do you feel any attraction to them? Can you picture yourself with a woman in a sexual or romantic partnership?
@KittyJames You need to be a Full member in-order to be able use the Private Messaging feature. And even then, you can message only "other" Full members and staff members. As you aren't one yet, you can use the public wall messaging feature to chat with a member.
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Once you have enough time and posts the form will be available to you I believe in the top right corner of your screen under 'forms'. I know it is not the same as Private messages but you can post on peoples walls if you want to talk to someone specifically (do bear in mind that it is visible to all members) or continue to post in the thread and we will help you all we can
