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Reaching Out

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Ariake, Feb 10, 2020.

  1. Ariake

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    Hey, I'm new to this community, looking for support and advise none of which I can rely on my parents for
     
  2. Mirko

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    Hi there! Welcome to Empty Closets. I hope you will find the support you are looking for. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Ariake

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    Thanks
     
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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
  5. Jakebusman

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    Tell us about your self
     
  6. Ariake

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    I am transmale, age 16, and dealing with dysphoria that gets worst with each passing day. I'm unable to seek out face to face therapy or proceed to start horomone therapy as my parents refuse to even try to understand what it is I am feeling, I've tried everything to get them to listen, but they have stereotypical intolerant
     
  7. Ariake

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    Responses (sorry the reply is split, I clicked... Something). So unable to seek out help, and finding myself isolated from people I once felt were my friends but am now unable to feel comfortable around them as they insist on trying to follow the "trend" and fake being transgender when they're not, I turned to social support online, hoping to find someone, anyone like me who can support me in my journey.
     
  8. Quantumreality

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    Hey @Ariake ! Welcome to EC!

    So, you're 16 and you're trying to get support and understanding for being who you are (which happens to be a Trans Male teenager in this instance). You' ve arrived at an extremely helpful, understanding and totally supportive website.

    I have never acutally lived in Missouri - other than traveling through the state and staying overnight, as well as about two months at Fort Leonard Wood. I, personally, am also not Trans, but I think I get what you are talking about - at least in the big picture.

    It can be super hard for those of us who are LGBTQ to not only be taken seriously - especially for Transgender people, but also to find people around us in an otherwise seemingly 'hostile' environment, who can provide support.

    I would invite the EC Administrators/Advisors @Mirko and @Chip to this conversation in order to better help you with local resources.

    But, know this @Ariake , you are not alone.

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  9. Ariake

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    Thank you. It's nice to know there are understanding people out there who at least try to care.
     
  10. Mirko

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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! I'm glad you decided to join. Being part of the community and sharing your experiences, fears and hopes can help in finding a way forward and feeling not being alone.

    While things might seem difficult right now, know that it won't be always like this.

    If you would like, feel free to send me a Private Message (Conversation Message) and I can try helping you to locate some resources near you. You can send me a message by clicking on my username and on the pop up, click on 'Start a Conversation'. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi welcome to EmptyClosets!