In basic words , she wants to sleep with me. I want to sleep with her. I believe I want to take it easy simply cause I've had less experiences. I don't want to disappoint her cause yes I'm extremely attracted to her.
I'm sure she would understand, and it's okay to not have a lot of experience with that and whatnot. If they are a nice person, then it won't be an issue. Just express you wanna take it easy or something if you want. If she isn't understanding though then she wasn't worth it, and there are better people out there who are more understanding than that.
I think you are projecting/planning way too much and that this is a terrible idea, I have read all your posts about this girl and while it’s great you are enthusiastic about someone, I think having expectations about someone before you even meet them is a recipe for disaster. There’s been plenty of girls I was enthusiastic about before I met them and then when we met there was no spark, nothing was like I imagined and it was much more disappointing than had I gone through it without any expectations. Planning to have sex with someone before you even meet them puts sooo much pressure on it that it adds stress to the date, probably puts you in a position that will make it harder to back out from if you don’t actually like her when you meet her and increases the likelihood of sex being bad due to it not being spontaneous. I don’t think most girls care about experience that being said and you having less experience than me wouldn’t be a problem. I am rarely aware of the number of sexual partners the person I am having sex with has had.
Wow I get you , thank you. Guess I am looking too much in. Mainly I think this cause I'm overwhelmed by her liking me. She is a very awesome girl. If I'm shy then I'll be shy, if I'm confident then I'll be confident.
At times she can be an intense flirt, and that makes me a bit nervous. But thanks yeah I'll take your input
Have you video chatted or something like that? Don't want to be pessimistic but catfishing is a thing, so not sure how intense of a flirt she is but I would definitely refrain from sending pictures or anything inappropriate you wouldn't ever feel comfortable finding online with your name associated with it.
We have had very good conversations, and share a lot of interests. In all honesty I'm extremely attracted to her , I like her a lot she seems like a nice girl. Guess I want to cool down the flirting until we actually meet. I feel like we get along strongly, but we're yet to meet. I'm not annoyed with her , but I'm in anxious panic cause I know I like her..... Lol I'll get over it.
Hey Jof, I think it’s totally natural to be nervous or to feel what if you’re gonna disappoint her or what especially when you’re so attracted with her or someone, but it’s also fine not to be rushed, take your time and make it special as u imagined it to be, it is much better to know more about the person first and then you’d know if there is really a deeper connection or none. Sex is so much better & such a beautiful thing when two are in sync with genuine connection, just make sure you know bout her more before you get hurt or is it just about physical.
Thanks it was an awesome date. This girl is amazing, we spent a whole two days together and I felt like I lived my real life. I've never felt like myself as much until I met her. We're still "just friends" cause she told me she's really not ready for a relationship, plus its early days still. We really dearly like each other though so who knows. To me she's a good human.
