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Hi from LIncs, UK

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Zarya, Jan 18, 2020.

  1. Zarya

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    Hi all!

    just thought I’d be sociable/civilised and say hi!

    I’m a 42y gay female (out for over 20y) although have never truly fitted the gender associated social constructs. It’s fair to say I’m a little confused atm, and the only things I know for absolute certain are that I am biologically female, sexually and emotionally attracted to women and am not trans. If I had to label it, I’d go with gender non-conforming I think. I have recently started to adopt neutral pronouns outside of my family...

    Am off to delve the forums for further inspiration!
     
  2. Dreamsexul

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    Hi Zarya,

    I often use the accepted social handles even though I know they are not accurate. They may give people an approximation of where I am. We are all unique creatures. I find I don't fit social norms, often by choice. I simply refuse to meet someone else's ideas of what is correct behavior. I think this is a place where no one is going to mind at all. Welcome and be yourself.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
  5. Spartan 117

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    Hello! I hope you find the forum friendly and helpful. :-D

    Maybe we could combo grav and dragons.
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! :slight_smile: