so I'm gay right, and there is this guy I really like. He is in the grade below me but we are friends. He is a social butterfly and found out my name through a mutual friend, and would say hi *name* every time he walked past me, could mean he liked me or that he is just really social. there was another instance early in the friendship we were on the way to sport a friend asked who he was and he went "I'm *name*'s boyfriend " I think mostly as a joke but that friend is kinda homophobic so i just laughed and said "what" instead of " i wish". Anyway nobody knows his sexuality and I have a massive crush on him but we are like just friends, we only see each other when changing classes and sometimes on the way out of school so like how would I ask him out or get his sexuality in a not awkward way?
If you're out to a lot of people at your school, which I'm assuming you are (kindly correct me if I'm wrong here), I'd say the easiest thing you can do is ask that person if they'd like to hang out with you after school, get a soda or coffee or ice-cream or something. In today's day and age, I think the intent of asking someone out is understood, ha ha. My apologies if that came out wrong. I don't have a lot of experience asking people out, but it's getting easier for me to come out and tell people about my sexuality slowly. People are open-minded. So I doubt they would mind if you asked them out directly. I'll stop now before I confuse myself, ha ha. Good luck!
I would say to be discrete and ask him to go to a movie or something with you. That way you and he could spend some time with one another somewhat alone. You can then have conversations about various things and you can both get a feel for one another by your answers. For example, figure out how to work masturbation into the chat. I mean its a known fact that guys your age do it constantly do it wouldnt be anything uncommon for guys your age to talk about. I work for a middle school and drive a middle school bus so i know. Lol. You could ask him what he uses to jack off such as looking at porn or whatever and what kind. That should answer some questions. Just talk casually and let the conversation flow and i bet you find out some things. If he turns out to be straight, lol even straight guys are usually willing to jo with another guy. Whats the worse that could happen, you wind up with a new friend that you know more about regardless of his sexuality. Just my two cents, ultimately its your decision what to do. This answer is just what i would try if i were your age.
