well, hello I'm here because I have no other place where i can talk about this. A few weeks ago I felt something, a strange feeling of being attracted to a girl (she's two years older than me). We met at college . but she is literally the only woman i ever truly liked. I don't know how to describe it, it's like when I'm around her she makes me a better person. I truly believe that means something. Anyways, I think she already has a girlfriend (btw I forgot to mention, when I first met her I thought she's a boy) - she dresses a bit tomboyish and has short hair. i have never felt such attraction to a man. not even close. (even though I still like to spend some friday nights on ###### dates with hot guys) I'm confused.
Hi Borna, That must be disconcerting. It's hard to be logical and rational about yourself. However, if you feel like a better person or becoming one, I think that's a strong indicator. Maybe you are trying to identify yourself in a more narrow criteria than where you live? Reach out to a friend you trust? Talk to a therapist? You might need an outside view. Hope you find what you are looking for. I also wish you love and acceptance. Welcome. Warmly, Jacqui
Hey welcome to EC. This is a great place to talk and figure it out. Sometimes we find that it is 1 girl who makes us notice our same sex attraction but that once we have come to terms with that we notice more.
