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Why after my first experience with another man I have a craving for more

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Shadow N, Dec 18, 2019.

  1. Shadow N

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    I don't understand why my body wants to repeat the experience that I had with another man (oral sex) and from bicuriosity I developed a craving, what is wrong with me? I don't know what to do.
     
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    Doesn’t sound like there’s anything wrong with you. Maybe you liked it, and therefore want to do something you liked again?
     
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    Just relax. There's nothing wrong with you. Sex is enjoyable. You enjoyed it and that's good. Maybe just go with the flow for a bit before thinking about anything serious, have fun.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with you. Why would you think enjoying oral sex with another man would constitute something being wrong with you. How about you like it!
     
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    I know that I love it (it came as clear as day after having my first experience while trying to answer my bicuriosity), but this craving is something new to me and I am still processing this new feeling that my body keeps sending me and it is scary to me as well (it is something new to me and I want to process it and deal with it in a responsible way)
     
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    Perhaps it means you are more than just bicurious and lean more towards gay. For me after my first sexual experience with another man I knew this is what I wanted exclusively.