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Friendly Conversation starters

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Kyrielles, Nov 11, 2019.

  1. Kyrielles

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    Hey guys! Anyone have any advice on some good conversation starters and conversation in general when trying to talk to a fellow lesbian and potentially trying to make a friend. Without giving off an I'm trying to have a relationship or hookup vibe. Lol. Friend only vibes and conversation. In a relationship and can never seem to get or keep a lesbian or bi friend without them at some point thinking I want to hookup.
     
  2. abby z

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    Maybe talk about music choices? Look up 100 truth or dare questions and you’ll get some pretty good convo starters from the truth ones. Good luck!
     
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    Funny, whenever I want to hookup with someone, all they think I ever want is conversation LOL. It's probably not your conversation per se, you just may be one of those people who give off a bedroom kind of vibe. It helps, I think, to keep a little physical distance.Try positioning your body so that your hips are always at a slight angle to the person you are speaking to. Lean back more than you lean forward. Avoid eye contact when the conversation is at a lul, bringing your eyes toward the person only when you or they are drawing to the point.
     
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    What about giving them a compliment on something. And if it's something like clothing, you could ask them where they got it (even if you're not actually interested in buying it).
     
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    Probably the easiest thing to do in order to prevent confusion when establishing a friendship is to explicitly tell them what you are and are not looking for. People appreciate the clarity and it reduces anxiety to know. The less chance of a misunderstanding, the better.
     
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