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Lesbian Chat + Curious Friends

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lena2051, Apr 29, 2019.

  1. Denial

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    I'm good thanks. I had a relaxing weekend.
     
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    Oh relaxing weekends can be the best.
     
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    Hi Guys,
    my name is Cat and i'm new here...
    ummm so i'm kinda confused cuz i like girls, and i kinda need some advice and help with accepting myself and coming out, sooooo would be great if u could help me.
    Thanks xx
     
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    Hey what's up?
     
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    Hey cat. It can be scary learning to love and accept yourself trust me. I don't have advice on coming out I'm still coming to grips with thinking I might have always been bi
     
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    Hey welcome, everyone here can help you :slight_smile:
     
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    hey thanks! that would be great
     
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    yes definitely, totally agree! still trying to get thru this tho...
     
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    Thanks
     
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    So what do you feel like you need help with?
     
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    What do you feel like you need help with?
     
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    hey, i feel like i need help with discovering my sexuality... so, i like girls, but i also want to be with a guy, but only because it feels right...
    I feel attracted towards girls but not towards guys, yet i want to be in a relationship with a guy because i feel like i have to, when i really just want to be in a serious relationship with a girl... soo i'm kinda stuck...
     
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    It can be really confusing, can't it. How long have you been questioning your sexuality?
    Do you think it is society pressure that makes you feel like you want to date a guy?
     
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    yeah so confusing! I have been questioning for 3 years now, although this year, i really started to feel attracted to girls, and losing the attraction towards guys... I just think because i used to be straight i should be now???
     
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    Yeah I don't think that is uncommon, society leads you to be straight unless proven otherwise and so it can take a while to untrain the brain so it stops believing that is what it wants, or at least should want.
     
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    I guess everything.
     
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    You sound like me except i still can't figure out if I'm truly attracted to both men and women or if I just love lesbian porn.
     
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    Just be yourself. Through out my own life I've had periods where I wanted to be with guys and periods where I want a woman. Lately it's been women big time
     
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    Do you feel attracted to women when you’re not watching porn? 99.999 times out of 100, if you’re even asking, you’re probably attracted to the same sex.
     
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    Sometimes I do feel attracted to women outside the porn