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There are More Than Two Human Sexes

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Being Jess, Nov 18, 2019.

  1. Being Jess

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    Next time someone tries to tell you that being trans or non-binary (in fact any LGBQTA+) is a choice - show them this:

     
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    This stuff is super-interesting. It's like from Star Trek, IDIC - infinite diversity in infinite combinations. Hopefully with time the rest of the world can start celebrating human diversity instead of stigmatising it. :pray:
     
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    I fully agree with you friend!

    We must just never give up or ever live our lives for anyone else. Just like the LGBTQA+ people of the past helped illuminate our path our actions will do the same for those still to come. We must endevour to always be the change we want to see in the world - and if there is one thing we LGBTQA+ beings are good at, it's change <3
     
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    Biological sex, sexual characteristics and gender identity are very different things. Biological sex is what a person is born with, what they cannot change, such as chromosomes. Even if a person does have an anomaly in their chromosomes, it doesn't necessarily mean they are trans or non-binary. A person also couldn't be able to tell if they have a chromosomal anomaly without the diagnosis of a medical professional. Also saying all LGBT people have chromosomal abnormalities is false. People who may have a chromosomal abnormality may identify as cis, and people who have normal chromosomes may identify as trans.

    The video discusses sexual characteristics which doesn't have to do with how a person identifies. Biologists really aren't trying to explain gender identity but sexual biology. However, sexually speaking, there aren't an infinite amount of sexual identities. Gender identities may be debatable. But people are either born male, female, or intersex, which is quite rare and most likely not going to be diagnosed if there aren't physical abnormalities at birth.
     
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    I watched about half of the video, and understood very little, so I'm just going to take his word for it that there are more than two sexes. Although the XXY thing kinda sounds like me. This could potentially help not only LGBT people, but also people such as men who are small and not terribly masculine, or women are who are taller and less feminine.
     
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    Hawk is correct here.

    I really recommend SciShow, SciShow Psych and Journey to the Microcosmos (also from Hank Green and co-workers) for those interested in science. However, it's important to keep in mind that each of these channels and each video have different themes, from different areas.

    SciShow is mostly focused on natural sciences. The video linked on the first post is really interesting from a biological point of view, but it can't be used to explain gender and identities, simply because that's not the objective of the video. Gender and gender identities are something discussed in areas like sociology and psychology. Although there is probably some biological factors that come into play in these concepts, biology alone isn't enough to explain gender. Gender is a complex concept, which includes how society perceives men and women (and what the words "man" and "woman" means) and how people perceive themselves.

    We can't ignore biology, but we also can't use it to explain concepts and phenomena that go beyond what biology aims to study. With cromossomes and biological processes, we can understand (roughly speaking) what the words male, female and intersex means. However, "intersex" (which is really rare) is different from being "trans". One is a biological phenomena, and the other involves much more than just biology.

    That's why saying we have "more than two genders" is completely different than saying we have "more than two sexes". As I said before, I do recommend the channels I mentioned above (including the one from the linked video), but we need to be careful not to mix things up.
     
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    So is being LGBTQA+ nurture or nature?

    It can't be nurture because then twins brought up in the same environment with the same parents would both be straight or both be LGBTQA+, though there are tons of twins out there where one twin is straight or cis and the other twin is LGBTQA+.

    So if it is not nurture then it must be nature and that means biology.

    People aren't LGBTQA+ because of past abuse or trauma. It is not a choice or a reaction to something that happened to them. So if it is not a choice then it must be biological.

    The point of the video is that if there are more than two sexes and biology is as complicated as it is and we have only ever allocated a binary to sex then the biology behind gender or sexual preference is as complicated and as much non-binary.

    The goal is not for us to argue our point and focus on who is right because then no one wins. The point is to create awareness and help move human consciousness forward so that we no longer look at sex, gender, sexual preference or anything for that matter as black and white.

    Your point about not all LGBTQA+ people having chromosomal abnormalities may be true though we also know that we don't have enough research to know any more than we do and if you are backing up what you are saying based on your opinion or information you have gathered from other people and not from years of study you have done as a doctor, biologist or scientist then you know just as much about it as anyone else - nothing really.

    There must be something biologically different between someone who is LGBTQA+ and someone who is not. Whether that is due to chromosomal differences (not going to use the word abnormalities because there is no such thing as abnormal, hell there is no such thing as normal) or some other difference in biology.

    The objective of the video is not to say that sex and gender are the same thing - the guy presenting the video makes this distinction early on. The objective of the video is to point out that something as simple as the binary of male (penis) and female (vagina) is not as straight forward as people believe it is and if something as binary as that is a spectrum then it's open season on breaking down any and all understanding of what defines sex, gender and sexual preference.

    Not you nor I nor anyone on this website nor anyone in this world really understands any of it and so if we can at least agree to that then we can have a conversation that is not based on opinion or one person knowing more than another because of what someone else told them - we can have a conversation that starts on a blank page which says - everything we have been told, everything we know about reality, about sex, gender or sexual preference, everything we know about religion, about money, about love, about joy, life's purpose is not entirely true and based mostly on dogma, fear and control.

    When we can get to this place humanity will move forward. Until then it's just a bunch of people standing on their soap boxes shouting their opinion into a bunch of other opinions and lawmakers passing laws because the majority of the people that vote for them are still no more clued up than they were before.

    Bottom line. If biology is not responsible for someone being LGBTQA+ then you are saying it is a choice.

    And you and I know full well that being LGBTQA+ is not, absolutely NOT a choice.

    What part of biology it is that creates a beautiful LGBTQA+ being and what part of biology it is that creates a straight or cis being really doesn't really matter.

    The point is either way it is not a choice, and that is something non LGBTQA+ people need to know and understand so that acceptance and compassion can follow.
     
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    Arrgh. People are conflating gender and sex. They aren't the same. Gender is a social construct. Sex is not.

    Being same-sex attracted is hardwired. Whether it is genetic, something that happens during gestation in pregnancy, or some combination of those factors and some nurture factors that increase the likelihood of the hardwired trait actually expressing is not clear. But it is not a choice, and nobody credible has said that for decades.

    Now... when you start getting into a whole bunch of other stuff, like the (nonexistent) discordant separation between romantic and sexual orientation, the notion of "gray asexuality", the rampant misuse of the term 'asexual' (a term which refers to a (rare) hardwired orientation the same as homo and heterosexuality, but has been widely misused) then you're in a completely different realm of mostly evidence- and research-free speculation and assumptions perpetuated by a small-but-vocal group of people with no scientific basis whatsoever.

    I am not fluent enough on the issues of biological/psychological interplay in gender role expression, but I do know that virtually every credible mental health organization in the world sees transgender people as experiencing something that isn't a choice, either.

    So I don't think anyone is saying that sexual orientation (at least as far as the research extends, and the research is pretty exhaustive and has been for 50+ years) can be changed. But that has nothing to do with gender being separate from sex. This really isn't something that's remotely controversial.
     
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    You're right, it is biology. But biology isn't a spectrum. A person cannot biologically be anything other than the male or female sex. Gender however, can be a spectrum, and gender identity and sex are not one in the same.
    https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sexual-orientation-gender/gender-gender-identity

    You're right, and that occurs in the brain.
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5953012/
     
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    So what is intersex - male or female?

    How come I have a penis though I have a female but, female hands, a female neck, female eye lashes? Are chromosomes only responsible for creating the genitals? Biology extends far beyond sexual organs. In the video you heard of men who much later in life discovered they had ovaries. So what about subtle things like physique or tone of voice and a body that produces testosterone differently to another due to chromosomal differences?

    Also how could the development of the brain not be influenced by chromosomes?

    Being LGBTQA+ is not a choice it is biology.
     
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    You have both completely missed the point.

    It's about one. simple. thing.

    LGBTQA+ people face issues everyday from people who totally and completely believe that being LGBTQA+ is a choice or something that can be washed off or made to go away by praying or some form of self flagellation or death.

    If the complexity of biology is so vast and something as straight forward as sex is as complicated and non-binary as it is then that points to the fact that gender and sexual preference is exactly the same.

    Showing someone (a family member or a friend) that has been incredibly opinionated about how to fix the LGBTQA+ problem that now exists in their family or friend's circle, might at least open their eyes a little and maybe even lead to understanding and compassion.

    To me that is what is important. Less people suffering at the hands of the ignorant.

    The details and technicalities really are irrelevant and over time will change with further study and understanding of who we are as human beings.

    We are, after all, living in a world where people believe that there is a heaven and a hell and a guy named Jesus actually existed despite what happened in 325 AD.

    We have a really long way to go on all fronts.

    Anyway I apologize for being so simple minded.

    Blessings, friend
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    That's precisely the point here: Generally speaking, intersex is caused by chromossomal anomalies. In most cases, that person isn't "50/50", having either more male characteristics or female characteristics. In many cases, it is possible to have surgeries and treatment so the person can remove most traces of one of the sexes, leaving the predominant one. This has nothing to do with HRT or sexual reassignment surgery as in trans people. Being intersex isn't the same as being trans. It is purely biological, and has little to do with self-identification or being a woman or a man.
    How come I have a penis though I have a female but, female hands, a female neck, female eye lashes? Are chromosomes only responsible for creating the genitals? Biology extends far beyond sexual organs. In the video you heard of men who much later in life discovered they had ovaries. So what about subtle things like physique or tone of voice and a body that produces testosterone differently to another due to chromosomal differences?[/QUOTE]

    What exactly do you define as female hands or eye lashes?

    Yes, people may be more or less delicate/brute, for example. We have a wide variety of characteristics that are determined biologically. However, being intersex is rare, and having some characteristics usually associated with the other gender doesn't necessarily mean you are intersex.
    Also how could the development of the brain not be influenced by chromosomes?

    Being LGBTQA+ is not a choice it is biology.[/QUOTE]

    Yes, and we are not saying being LGBTQA+ is a choice. We also haven't said that biology can't play a part in all of this (it most likely does). However, you seem to be confusing gender and sex.

    When we are talking about pure biology, sex and chromossomes, most people are born either XX or XY. There are variations, yes, but they are quite rare and frequently are accompanied by health difficulties. Examples are syndromes like Klinefelter (XXY), Turner (X) and even extreme variations like the XXXXY syndrome.

    Now, I'm not saying people are either men or women. That's precisely the point: When we change the subject to gender, identity and societal norms, then we are talking about concepts like being a man, woman or another gender. Biology may play a role on this, but it is far from enough to explain these concepts and processes. To understand the fenomena involved on being cis or trans, we need to consider psychology, sociology, and cultural expectations and differences. Biology alone isn't enough, simply because it doesn't aim to explain identity and other concepts that are essential here.

    A person may be intersex and trans. But that doesn't mean every intersex people is trans, or that every trans person is intersex. These are two unrelated concepts.

    You aren't wrong when you say we suffer constant prejudice (and many intersex people also suffer because of this), and I completely agree that science and knowledge are very, very strong "weapons" in our fight against violence and ignorance.

    It is perfectly possible to defend LGBTQA+ people by looking what science has to say about it, and you are right when you say it's not a choice. No credible research points in that direction. However, if we want to teach people about science, then we need to do it right, and we can't just ignore "details and technicalities".

    Science has many different fields, and we can't ignore part of them and consider just biology. It isn't enough to explain the complexity of what it means to be LGBTQA+. I'm not saying biology is to be partially ignored or that we should just consider other areas. However, biology aims to study life and it's dynamics. It doesn't aim to study society, thoughts and mental processes that go beyond the chemistry in our brains and behavior that go beyond what our hormones dictate.

    On the contrary, if we resume things to just biology, we risk ignoring concepts that are essential for trans people. You can't explain identity through biology only.

    If you want to educate people about science as a way to fight prejudice, you have my complete support. But we have to do it right, without confusion. Science is on our side, and we don't need to distort it, mix concepts or ignore other important fields in order to defend LGBTQA+ people. If we do it, it is easy for a bigot with minimum study and ill intentions to distort things and deconstruct our arguments.

    Biology is an important part of science. In my opinion, it is the most beautiful part of it. However, science is much more than just biology. And humans, cis or trans, hetero or gay/bi/lesbian, intersexual or not, are extremely complex. We need biology to understand this complexity. But we also need psychology, sociology and other fields. Not everything is about chromossomes, and something not being about them doesn't mean it is a choice.

    The video is extremely interesting, but biological sex and gender are two different concepts. They are both important, but they explain different phenomena that are connected to different science fields, and we can't simply say it they are the same thing.
     
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    Firstly Chiroptera, thank you for taking the time to write that response - it is very much appreciated.

    The point of sharing the video was merely to point out that something as common as male and female is not quite as binary as people think, as per the contents of that video, and therefore gender and sexual preference is not quite as binary as people think. I should have described that better when I shared the video.

    I am glad sharing the video started this conversation because of the information you shared. It has been most helpful to me as I am sure it will be most helpful to others.

    Thank you for your time and for caring as much as you do!!

    Blessings
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    No problem. I'm glad to know you took the time to read it and didn't take this the wrong way.
    Humans are really complex, and, sure, gender and sexual preference are really complicated and hard to resume to just this or that. However, we need to be careful to not fall on the extremes. Some people ignore biology completely, while others think we can use it to explain everything, disregarging other fields that are essential to understand the dynamics of behavior and relationships in humans.

    Like I said before, SciShow is awesome. We just need to pay attention while we are interpreting what is being said in the videos, to avoid misconceptions and confusion.
    No problem! :slight_smile:
     
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    I saw this video about a minute after it got posted.


    The dislike ratio was pretty bad.
    5k dislikes to about 3k likes.

    That ratio has thankfully fixed itself.
     
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