so my grandma destroyed my relationship with my boyfriend. the only actual person i told i was trans and he was good with it. he left cuz she was acting insane as usual and my anxietys just awful and as is my depressions getting bad again. i dont know what to do. some one help?
Hi there, sorry to read that. Not sure how I could help but just wanted to say hi and send you good vibes. Hope things get better, keep strong
If she normally behaves this way isn’t he aware of it? I mean did something really happen that made it worse this time or did he say something that made you think he was over it all? I’m just curious why you think it’s ruined y’alls relationship....
she broke the tablet when she found out i was dating him. like she slammed it onto the counter repeatedly
Wow. That’s quite a reaction. Maybe he wanted to keep you safe from your family. Or maybe he was looking out for his safety. I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this
Is your grandmother your primary parent/guardian figure? Are there consistent anger issues? Are there other indications of mental health issues? If so, it sounds like your home environment may not be safe for you, in which case, it might be worthwhile to speak with either a teacher or guidance counselor at school. They should be able to involve a social worker to perhaps get your grandmother some help and/or get you into a safer environment.
