Single and don’t want to be. I want a gf so bad. I’m nice and cute just a bit awkward because I have aspergers. I know if I didn’t I’d probably have a gf and a long term one at that. So I’ve had a couple gfs in the past both were very short relationships 2 months sadly because both women were very depressed and not in the state of mind to date. They both had abuse and trauma sadly. I’ve been officially out a few years and since then I’ve dated and kissed 3 girls which I’m so happy about and my last gf and I broke up in July. I went on a date a few weeks back where the girl and I made out at the end but then she texted me the next day saying her friend asked her out and she wants to pursue it and she was sorry. I was happy to get kissed though. I go to lots of dances thrown by the ### app so I can meet other queer women to date. I met my first gf at one of those things but besides her I’ve had no luck. I’ll approach a girl I like and she will nicely tell me she’s not interested which sucks. I’ll say are you single and she’ll say yeah but not looking and it’s like if I wasn’t socially awkward you wouldn’t be saying that maybe. It’s just so hard. The dating apps are disappointing because most people don’t respond or never make effort to meet and I just want a girl at one of these her parties to say she’ll go out with me and kiss me. So many girls make out at those and I want some too! I want kisses and love and affection and all that and deserve it as much as the next person!
Kudos to you for being so proactive on the sites/apps! That’s great! Have you looked into meetup.com to see if there are any lgbt groups that you might like? Maybe joining a couple of those would give you a chance to meet others in a more relaxed environment. They’re not centred around dating but other social/fun activities and maybe getting to know you in these situations will help the others see how great you are! :} Just a thought.
Hey I'm sorry you are not having more luck with the apps. Really's advice is good it is definitely worth a go. All I would say it try not to get too disheartened, i am sure someone will come along and when she does, all of the effort will be worth it.
Hello, Have you tried to see if there was any organizations or social events you can go to in your town?
Thank you I have been to lots of meetups and made some friends that way and it’s great, I also went to a lesbian book club meetup. I know at some point maybe I will meet someone to date there even though they don’t center around dafinf. I know the right girl is out there.
