Over time I have evolved into what I call being myself. I am loving, kind, and welcoming. I am a wonderful husband. I am a wonderful friend to many. I am me. I remember being 20 and dating who would become my first wife. I loved her and cared for her for 13 years and then we parted our ways. And then a few years later I met someone else and well I loved her too, but she was not able to show love back enough to even try to understand who I was. She was always too busy getting what she wanted and doing things some that were not good to get what she wanted. As time has gone by it seems what I wanted most was love. And it seems somehow those that were close and really loved me are still there. Friends from even before meeting my first wife which goes back to 1980. When it comes down to it the most important things are not things they are people and animals who show us love and whom we love. I have found love. And some that I loved have found other people to be around. I am very glad for those in my life now. TM
The most beautiful thing about accepting that I was gay was realizing it wasn't some sexual kink or 'something wrong' with me - it was how I express romantic love physically-and it made me realize what I was missing when I tried to 'love' women that way... Now all I want to do it find someone to express that love to!
You are most welcome qtp when we start to smarten up some as time goes by some of us realize the importance of love and relationships and friendships. Love is really the essence of Life.
