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Hello, world! 'Tis I, coffeecat! This is my very legitimate title!

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  1. coffeecat

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    So, hello! I'm not terribly sure what to put here, but I read a few of these introductory posts and I think I get the gist of it.

    To start, my name is coffeecat. I'm . . . probably gay, to be honest, but can't put "lesbian" as my orientation for reasons not relating to the website and mostly relating to the fact that "orientation" and "gender" are mostly just weird, vague concepts for me.

    I'm a girl, probably, but only because I can't be bothered to be anything else, and while I've kissed/been kissed by boys and a girl and have a vague desire to kiss girls, I'm not super ready to date, though I'd be down to try.

    In terms of what I'm looking for on this website, I would like to share my experience and gain understanding of the LGBT+ community, and maybe would like to find ways to get rid of my pesky Church Demon (that's what I call the internalized homophobia that I'm working through). I would like to gain allies and friends, and while don't know if dating is a thing done on this website, if it is, future-me will consider looking into that, but for know I'm strictly riding the platonically gay rainbow train.

    I also cannot ever hope to express how much I want to people, always, so if you need a friend or want to rant or want to talk or just want someone to listen to, I'd be totally down. Like, whenever.

    I'll try to check this site regularly, but I'm a disaster human without regular internet connection, so we'll see how this goes. This is your local Probably-Lesbian Pal, over and out!
     
  2. Robbieluvs

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    Hi im new too gender fluid myself
     
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    Well then, welcome to the New People Club, dude! Or wait, is it I that is being welcomed? Regardless, my name's coffeecat, and it's an utmost pleasure to meet you, Robbieluvs!
     
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    Never see a cat on coffe be mad lol but brill
     
  5. coffeecat

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    Lol, yeah, thanks! Anyways, it's nice to meet you!
     
  6. Cind Ace

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    Welcome to the forum coffeecat & love your humor! Love talking bout anything lgbt wise or anything too.
     
  7. coffeecat

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    Aww, thanks so much! I'm a terrible conversationlist but if you want to talk about anything (from memes to LGBT to hobbies and more!) I'd be down!
     
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    uhm i think i might be too but it is good to chat or talk to anything whenever or whatever we want to it helps a bit really. thanks coffeecat
     
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    Wow that was soo relatable... I literally just put bi down because it's much easier to say that than to have to explain that I like girls more but I don't know if I'm ready to date to test that theory... and also I get the internalized homophobia thing. I am super accepting of everyone else in the LGBTQ+ community, but I can't seem to accept myself fully.