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*sigh* im sooo bored of being single.

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  1. Tigermud

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    I need a girlfriend. I love to have company. Ihave been looking and talking to girls but i havent found my love yet.

    Its so hard to wait for a girl to love. Ive used dating sites, but browsing the web takes out the charm.

    Ive met a few sweet girls online but they arnt meant to be.

    Ive also had bad girl trouble in the past. Im very over it.
     
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    Take your time . She’s out there and will find you when the time is right . Don’t give up and don’t close your apps. It took me 3 years to find my fiancé .


    And I found her on a dating app cause she messaged me saying I had beautiful eyes . Had I shrugged it off as another boring comment I wouldn’t be engaged atm . So I say don’t give up just yet .


    Lesbian and gay dating is 50 times harder to do then heterosexual dating . Simply ,Because there’s more straight women and straight men , most lesbians are usually poly or taken . And then you have your bisexual and pansexuals , also good to be with , but some as I noticed just look for a third in their heterosexual relationship , or are simply curious and nothing more . which made me sad .


    Never in my life did I expect to meet my love of my life on that day , in that dating site . But I did . Good luck and keep faith , you’ll find her .
     
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    Hey it is tough when you want a girlfriend and you cant find the right one. Are there any LGBT groups near you that you could join?
     
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    Tell me about it. I have plans to ask out my crush next week, but it's doomed to fail. So I'll still be single, but disappointedly so. Yay.
     
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    Why do you think its doomed to fail?
     
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    Because she doesn't like me, she likes some guy
     
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    Does she identify as straight?
     
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    She said she 'probably' liked girls. The day of reckoning is tomorrow, though
     
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    Well all you can do is tell her, the rest is up to her and whatever happens be proud of yourself. Good luck.
     
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    I'm feeling exactly in the same boat right now if it's any consolation. I'm feeling pretty deflated. I have been single for a few years now. I've recently been on a few dating app dates with no luck. I recently had a few dates with someone who I was actually attracted to and was starting to get excited about and then she cracked out the old "i'm actually seeing someone else" chestnut...!!
    I just can't fathom what it must be like to have a number of romantic options available at one time - especially in the lesbian scene !
    I envy people who can juggle multiple relationships, I find it hard enough just meeting one single person.

    I'm actually quite an attractive person and I know I've got a lot going for me, but I think that when you are single for quite a long time you can get into this mentality where you just think that actually you aren't meant for love and really start to believe that it's just never going to happen for you. I've caught myself thinking like this a few times and actively try and snap myself out of it.
     
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    I did it! It actually went really well. In summary, our friendship remains 100% intact and she even told me she had feelings for me a couple years ago! Not meant to be, but pretty much as good as I could have hoped for :slight_smile:
     
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    Oh thats great news, I mean sad that is not meant to be but at least you know for sure and wont be left wondering what if.
     
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    Thank you! I hope you find a wonderful girlfriend soon.
     
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    Thank you, I already have a wife though. I hope you find a wonderful girlfriend soon.
     
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    I'm currently in the same boat and have been for years. I have hope for you though. ♡ It's so hard getting a girlfriend for me....
     
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    I sympathize. I'm over being alone. I want to have someone to hold, to hug, to kiss, to laugh with.
    And petty-ish enough, my ex husband has a girlfriend and it's not fair he does and I don't.
     
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    Great job!
    I'm really happy for you!
    Lol, I'm still waiting for the right one,
    but I might be able to get the courage up to tell my friend I like her.
    Thanks for inspiring me!
    Your so brave!
     
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    Thanks! I don't think I'm particularly brave as I wouldn't have done it if I didn't know she wouldn't be awkward about it haha. Best of luck for telling your friend!
     
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    I hope you and your wife will be happy together for the rest of your lives x
     
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    Thanks. I hope so too. I am sure there are lots of girls out there that would love to date you.