Ok so in the past, I've thought of myself as pansexual. However, I've never been really attracted to dudes. I've never had a guy celebrity crush or found abbs all that attractive. Also, guy's privates are just gross (sorry to any guys). Now I've been like "well ok if I'm a lesbian then what does that matter I still like girls but I am keeping an open mind to anything that might happen". Now though, I've realized that whenever any girls that found cute come out as transgender and transition and stuff into a guy I no longer find them attractive even though they look and act pretty much the exact same. Now I'm confused?? Am I just opposed to guys? Can I be pan (be open to relationships with non-binary people) and still pretty much only like girls? What's going onnnn?
I consider myself pan however I use to identify before as a lesbian. I use to think male parts were gross and never thought I could be with a guy...then about a year later I developed a huge amount of attraction for them and their bodies! It’s been a confusing trip!! I never saw it coming. There’s nothing wrong with how you feel. you like what you like. It sounds to me though that you could be ”polysexual” and not pan. Polysexual is a sexuality that’s attracted to different genders but not all, this could be you.
Haha It can be mistaken for that! but no it’s a real sexuality that many people identify with. Do some research into it. It’s pride flag colours are pink, green and blue. You can still identify as Bi but instead of your attractions being boys and girls, Bi can mean your attracted to girls and non binary people...however would you date a non binary person who is biologically Male? If not then you might only be attracted to AFB people which could mean you may just be a lesbian. It’s tricky, best of luck though with whatever you decide!
