So this is how it goes. We meet up in two or three weeks and combine funds for a hotel room, get snacks and drinks and maybe a pizza to share , and watch movies together . Then take a shower together and introduce ourselves to our bodies . And if everything goes correctly , we may have sex . I’m hoping to use condoms on the strap on so we don’t give each other anything , as I have reaccuring Bacterial vaginosis . Meds do not help me . So I want to stick to fingers and strap ins and kissing for now . No oral sex until I know I’m better . I’m quite the pillow princess , being new to being lesbian openly , so she doesn’t mind if I lay back and do only kissing . We are still learning each other , and our bodies . So I feel to take it slowly is okay . And of course , Lubricant. Don’t need any bleeding from.rough toy play happening . I think we are all set otherwise . I look forward to it. Hehe .