For me, I came out in my mid to late 20's and it made me go through like a second puberty where I felt like the teenager my friends had been all those years ago.
Shannyn Sossomon and an unusual type for me Chris from Christine and the queens. I think it’s the way she moves and sings and that accent! As for the gaydar.. I always wonder but I’m never 100% sure.
Here is one of my celebrity crushes. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/08/7f/0c/087f0c34631953b45936de10c9dd5c27.jpg
It's difficult as often even when you notice someone you think might be gay, you cant always find out for sure.
I saw an Instagram post about people who hadn't realised they were LGBTQ+ yet, and later that day I watched a film and developed a crush on one of the female characters. Cue overthinking for a year and I eventually came to the conclusion that I was gay.
I first thought I was a lesbian in my teens. Then I thought maybe I was bi. Then I was back to thinking I'm a lesbian. Now I'm starting to wonder if I'm really asexual, though gals are certainly more interesting to me than guys just not so sure I want to have sex with anyone. I call myself a lesbian but I guess I'm really questioning. I'm almost 26 so I'm trying to settle on a label so I went with lesbian but sometimes I don't know anymore.
I much younger, but I've decided that being Lesbian is about being attracted to more feminine looking humans, that doesn't mean anti-butch. My parents are both Lesbian and they are super romantic with each other, so my guess, Being Lesbian doesn't have to do with sex but Attractiveness, I can't believe I spelled attractiveness right!?!. Anyways, I thought I was Demi and Bi too, I'm not ruling Bi out though, I'm adopted and full of Love for others, I don't know your sexuality but I have had the same thoughts.Maybe I helped with some insight, I hope so. Love you Luv- Lena P.S. I have curious thoughts from time to time, I don't know if you do, but they were all nerdy, feminine guys like Deku from My Hero Academia, they didn't last.