Ever since I was a teenager I never felt aroused except for when I looked at women , and they had to be feminine lipsticks or bisexual femmes . I also hated and still hate any form of penetration . I find the only time I’m “ aroused “ is watching two lesbians making love of any kind, S*x or cuddling or even kissing. . Is this normal for a lesbian ?
Everyone is different in that we all find different things arousing and get aroused by certain things or not, doesn’t make us any more or any less normal. A lot of women, gay and straight don’t like penetration. Me and my gf don’t do penetration. It’s something we will likely try at some point but neither of us needs it.