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Just me venting

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Black78, Aug 12, 2019.

  1. Black78

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    What is wrong with people on dating websites? I never hinted or asked to see anyone's private parts and yet I get message after message full of them...aaarrrrgggh maybe I should stay single
     
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    In my experience most profiles i meet on dating sites are trash. They are either just playing with you or not really serious about dating or relationships. Its typical and its nothing you did wrong just how immature people are now days.
     
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    Thanks I'm just an inch from deleting my profile
     
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    I am sorry it is that way. As hard as it to meet people sometimes who are lgbt i realized that the most decent ones are the ones who you actually meet in person and are most likely above that online dating stuff.
     
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    I don't drink thus I don't go to bars, so that limits my chances...anyway thanks maybe I will meet someone someday.
     
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    I'm sorry, this is rude, but having read about the pictures you were getting from guys, I found the above incredibly amusing. :slight_smile:

    Now... that said, I think the piece to remember is that these folks that feel the need to do this are either desperately trying to hustle for their worthiness, by 'fitting in' and doing what they perceive everyone else is doing, or else they are very wounded and for whatever reason, feel that the only part of them that anyone is interested in is their genetalia.

    Either way you look at it, it's a very sad state of affairs.

    There are folks who don't post or exchange pics like this. You're less likely to find so many of those on the hookup apps, but they do exist. So you can either look other places (dating sites as opposed to hookup sites, where it's less common to see a million dick pics), or just take it for what it is and dismiss those folks.
     
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    I don't really bother with that, I found the love of my life without even looking,
    #LoveIsATrickyOne