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So I'm gonna try this... for the first time

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Kevin k, Jul 13, 2019.

  1. Kevin k

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    So as I posted about once before, my bf has a transgender friend, and I've seen him in his underwear. Basically, we all had a conversation, and my bf agreed that it would be an interesting expirience if we all had a three-way together. At first I didn't want to, but I've had a recent change of heart. My bf thinks it'd be sexy, and I like to see him happy, so I'll give it a try. We set up a time when we'll all have plenty of time, Wednesday, or mabye Thursday. This'll be my first time doing vaginal Intercourse, and I'd like some advice. What do I do to make it better? What does it feel like anyway? He says it's his first time receiving aswell. I want it to be good for all of us. Advice?
     
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    Lube and some condoms. And make sure you are all communicating and making sure no one is doing something they don't want to.
     
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    I can't offer any advice on vaginal intercourse, but just be careful not to go from anal to vaginal, without cleaning and using a new condom.
     
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    Well, today is the day... he's coming over at 4. I actually got nervous hiccups this morning from thinking about it, I have no idea where this is gonna go!
     
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    Threesomes are pretty fun when they're with people you know. There's some sort of primal group-think feeling going on that makes it really hot and easy to get wrapped up in the sexual openness of it all.

    Hope you have a good time!
     
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    Well how did it turn out?
     
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    Really good, but it probably won't be a regular thing. It didn't feel right attending to two people at once. For me, sex is emotional more than physical, and this was sort of focused around pleasure. I like to make my bf happy, and it's just not the same with a third person. Feels less personal that way.
     
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    That makes total sense. Plus one With three people one always probably feels like the proverbial third wheel.