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Am I gay if I’m attracted to muscular men

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Luca cruz, Jul 19, 2019.

  1. Luca cruz

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    I’ve recently started questioning my sexuality because I’ve recently started to be attracted to muscular men, is this normal for my age. I’ve never emotionally or sexually been attracted to regular boys or men, but muscular men sorta turn me on. I’ve always liked girls I currently like a very pretty girl. I enjoyed watching gay porn but I now find it pretty disgusting? I’ve been sexually attracted to women but not to boys, only men that are very muscular. Am I gay or Heterosexual?
     
  2. Frick

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    Oh, I wish I could answer that! From what you are describing I'd say you're probably bisexual (attracted to both boys and girls), but it's up to you to decide wether that title fits or not. Sexuality is way more complex than being 100% attracted to one gender or the other, and is also fluid for some. A man can be gay if he's only attracted to a certain kind of guy, and this attraction can pop up at anytime in his life. I wouldn't read too much into how your feelings about gay porn have changed. Porn's weird. After a certain amount of watching, it can seem boring or disgusting. If I understand correctly you're a dude and not a lesbian, but most lesbians roll their eyes specifically at lesbian porn. If you really want to explore your attraction to muscular men, I'd suggest experimenting with different guys and girls as well as learning about the experiences of others. It's fine if you don't get your answers right away; many don't, and for some of those who do, it can still change.
     
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    Only you can truly know, but it sounds like you're bisexual.
     
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    You could also be Bi-romantic, which is when you are sexually and romantically attracted to one gender(In your case I think it would be girls) and only romantically attracted to the other. But sexuality is fluid, so you don't exactly have to be half and half if you think your bi, or completely into women if you label yourself as straight. (Example, 90% straight and 10% gay)It's all up to you, i wish you luck:slight_smile:
     
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