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  1. FemmeQueen

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    I doubt it tbh, but it'll happen eventually
     
    #21 FemmeQueen, Jun 28, 2019
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    When will you be going to college?
     
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    I’ll start in Fall 2020
     
    #23 FemmeQueen, Jun 29, 2019
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    So not too long although I'm sure it feels like forever. I can totally understand not wanting to be outed, I think when you are in the closet everything feels more risky. If you have LGBT friends there is no reason you couldn't be going as a straight ally but you have to do what you feel most comfortable doing.
     
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    Hi!I just joined this site today.I also have a homophobic family and understand your fears.I hope you will find here the support you need!
     
    #25 Nailove, Jun 29, 2019
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    Thanks! and I hope you get the support you seek as well.
     
    #26 FemmeQueen, Jun 29, 2019
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    Yeah, I could go as an ally but I'm not comfortable with that yet. I'm glad you understand.
     
    #27 FemmeQueen, Jun 29, 2019
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    It's no problem. You have to go at your own pace. You will get there when you are ready.
     
    #28 silverhalo, Jun 29, 2019
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    Don't be afraid to be proud of who you are
     
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    Yeah, my family is Mormon so there is definitely going to be some controversy when I completely come out. I am a tad bit rebellious to those in the family so next year I plan on going to pride in Seattle. I hope we both can go.
     
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    That’s easier said than done but I’m working towards it and I don’t think it’s smart to tell my dad while I’m still relying on him financially.

    Girl, I hope I can go to pride in the next few years but my dad can’t know any soon.
     
    #31 FemmeQueen, Jul 2, 2019
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    You will get there
     
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    Yeah dude, one day you'll get to be all bi and proud. For now I think you're right to not tell your dad. Everyone should be able to be open when they're ready and secure in themselves, whether physically or mentally.
     
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    Thank you!!!! I hope so :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah, I'm glad you understand. I truly think it is best for me to wait.:sparkling_heart:
     
    #35 FemmeQueen, Jul 3, 2019
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    You got pride in your avatar
     
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    That's true. Thanks!!! Also during pride month, I got my nails done pink, purple, and blue so it would be a little empowerment for me. I got compliments on it and most people said "That's so cute, are those your favorite colors?" and I was just like "Thanks and yeah" Those ARE my favorite colors so it's not a lie. One time when I was in the coffee shop for my support group, I was ordering a drink and I could tell the barista was queer because I know us and she said: "I like your nails, very bold." I thanked her and I knew that she got it. It's okay because the straights don't understand.:sparkling_heart::purple_heart::blue_heart:
     
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    I love the Bi colors
     
    #38 Jakebusman, Jul 6, 2019
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    YESSSS!!!! me too!!!!:sparkling_heart::purple_heart::blue_heart:
     
    #39 FemmeQueen, Jul 6, 2019
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    I got a bi pride keychain and necklace and rainbow bracelet
     
    #40 Jakebusman, Jul 6, 2019
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