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Gaydar Issues...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Ace896, Apr 25, 2019.

  1. Ace896

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    Location:
    England
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    So, just wanted to ask you guys if you've ever had issues with confusing your 'gaydar' with your 'want-them-to-be-gay-dar'? It seems to be a serious issue for me!

    Also, on a separate note, how does one let a guy know they're into him without making it explicitly obvious? Asking for a friend :wink:
     
  2. Ram90

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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I think it's the opposite for me lol. While I do 'lust' (*giggle* can't think of a better term to describe it) over hot models and actors, I don't really pay much attention to really good looking people in public at malls, cinema theatres and cafes other than a cursory glance, since I'm pretty sure they're straight or the minute-chance that they're closeted LGBT lol. So I think I have a straightdar lol. I don't even wish they were gay lol. That said, I do have a strong Gaydar and can guess when a person is a closet gay or lesbian pretty well. Bisexuals are hard though. :grin: