So, just wanted to ask you guys if you've ever had issues with confusing your 'gaydar' with your 'want-them-to-be-gay-dar'? It seems to be a serious issue for me! Also, on a separate note, how does one let a guy know they're into him without making it explicitly obvious? Asking for a friend
I think it's the opposite for me lol. While I do 'lust' (*giggle* can't think of a better term to describe it) over hot models and actors, I don't really pay much attention to really good looking people in public at malls, cinema theatres and cafes other than a cursory glance, since I'm pretty sure they're straight or the minute-chance that they're closeted LGBT lol. So I think I have a straightdar lol. I don't even wish they were gay lol. That said, I do have a strong Gaydar and can guess when a person is a closet gay or lesbian pretty well. Bisexuals are hard though.