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14 and looking to talk

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by JeanHB, Feb 27, 2019.

  1. JeanHB

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    Hi, Im 14 and looking to talk with some LGBT people around my age. I am out as BI to most of my friends but I am starting to question if I am a lesbian. Anything helps!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to Empty Closets! You have come to the right place to talk about things and ask questions. Feel free to create threads in the forum and ask away, share your thoughts and feelings. I'm sure others will respond and share their experiences.

    Welcome aboard.
     
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    Hi, @JeanHB, you are in the right place. Almost everyone who recognizes themselves as bi, has to wonder, just like you do. Who wouldn't? It means you are trying to make sure you don't kid yourself. You're honest, and yeah that's challenging.

    And almost everybody who recognizes themselves as gay, either they wonder or they have to deal with the wonderings of other people: "Oh, they're not gay, they just haven't met the right etc." So it works both ways.

    Well that sounds pretty negative, like everybody has to be obsessive, but really what it means is: you have a lot of company. And they have learned some things. And they are here on EC.
     
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    Hey! I'm 13 and going through something similar. I am pan but mostly attracted to girls. I am also out to most of my friends. I am here if you want to talk!!
     
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    Welcome to the EC forum, jean! hope you have fun :grin:
     
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    Same as me, I am pan and nonbinary. I'd be happy to talk to anyone <3
     
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    Hey! I’m 15, and I’m going through the exact same thing right now, I’d love to chat with you!!
     
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    Heyyy I’m also 14 and confused I barely came out to some of my friends too
     
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    Hi pancake, (you cool if I call you that?)
    Sorry it took me a while to respond to your message if you still want to chat I’m open to talking.