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Genuinely Questioning

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by 88Snow, Feb 25, 2019.

  1. 88Snow

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    Hi there.

    In general, I'm still very much confused of what I am. I used to think I was straight but that was surely because I was raised in the society that pretty much condemned anything that isn't straight. I mean, I knew what lesbians, gay, and bisexual were. Never thought I might have been one.

    That was until I took a notice of someone (unattainable) that I started to feel confusion inside my head. Like, wow, eye-opening. I never knew I could feel that way about a girl, and from that moment on, I felt even stronger attraction to women. Of course, I still have the attraction toward men, but it has never been huge either way. I had always wondered if it was normal to not feel that much attraction to men, but I had never considered my fondness toward women a thing.

    I started reading about sexual preference and all, and yet I still have no clear idea about what I am. It's like I'm faced with trident path and I just can't choose.

    So, yeah, wow. I didn't intend to make it that long. But anyway, I hope I will be able to find myself here. Nice to meet you (in advance)!
     
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    Heya!

    Welcome to EC! I hope you find our forum useful. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to the community, 88Snow. :slight_smile: Nice to meet you. I'm sure you'll find this place is full of people who share similar experiences to yours.
    If you need any assistance, please let a staff member know. :thumbsup:
     
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    Hello and welcome! We are all on a journey. It's hard to predict at times where our path is leading us. Follow your heart and trust your gut. You will eventually discover your route in life. Good luck. There are plenty of kind and caring people here to offer you encouragement and guidance.
     
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    Welcome! I’m sure everybody will help you, there are really cool people in here!❤️
     
  6. 88Snow

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    Thank you for the warm welcome! I hope I can learn more here. :wink:
     
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    i'm sure you will. i joined this forum 2 days ago and lots of people have helped me.