yikes, okay so hopefully i when i start highschool i will have moved towns, meaning in 7 months i wont be remembered for the stuff i did now so because i have a crush on this freshmen im in 8th grad i kinda want to ask him out, with all my time spent with him all i can say is that i like him, he's cute, smart, funny, a jerk but in a chill/fun way, hip, a feminist, and an added plus GAY because usually all my crushes are straight, do you think i should risk it and just ask him for coffee sometime? advice/thoughts?
Do it! What's the worst that can happen? He says no. If he's cool he'll be flattered and still want to be friends, no foul. Dating is hard to begin with, and sadly, it's even harder in the LGBT community. But I'm a big believer of living in the moment and always reaching for what you want. There's no gain if you don't try. Plus, you don't want to live with the whole "but if...". I think it's always better to know then to not know. But that's just my opinion.
Go for it! Life is too short to stand around and do nothing. Take advantage the the opportunities that present themselves in the here and now. There may be no romantic spark but you may make a good friend. Your crush may be lonely and looking for someone too. Good luck! *smile*