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3 month itch

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Soundofmusic, Jan 9, 2019.

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  1. Soundofmusic

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    Ok i did it.

    Thank you all for the advice

    I feel like a shitty human but i think its best for her. And it doesnt seem like she hates me. But she told me she loves me
     
    #21 Soundofmusic, Jan 15, 2019
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    I think you have to take it as it comes. Just because she was your first girlfriend doesn't mean it's related to your tendency to lose interest in relationships at three months. It's two separate things, right?
    If it isn't working, move on.
    Just don't let the three month thing become a self fulfilling prophesy. Maybe that's just how long it takes you to figure someone out *enough*
     
    #22 Brandy Bee, Jan 15, 2019
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    No worries, even though it feels harsh no, letting her get more attached to you when you don't feel the same way is no kinder, it just delays the inevitable and makes it harder and more painful when it does happen.
    Don't be too hard on yourself, give yourself a bit of time and then get back out there.
     
    #23 silverhalo, Jan 16, 2019
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