Pacing, pausing , crying, wondering and wandering as I stare , Outside away from what I’m no longer longing to bare. Being without great friends and even a bestie or three, Shedding off this invisible nasty layers of being alienated and empty. Even though I am past being fifty, Am desiring for support, friendships and peers that are truly genuine and be quite nifty. Would you be able to come and stay nigh, As I also long to be by your side , Then joyfully along with gratefulness we’ll be in there for each other’s lives ! Am an middle aged gay male whom is longing for some more lifelong friends, support, besides fervently looking for a couple of male best friends. All of these things I have been longing for years and since I have accepted myself as gay a few years ago since many left.
Hi hemcot4, welcome to EC. You may find some like-minded people your age in the LGBT Later in Life sub-forum. Keep in mind off-site contact is not allowed, though you can message people via wall messages. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to contact either myself or another member of staff. Hope you find what you’re looking for here.
Thank You, to you and the others at Empty Closets! Happy New Year to each of you! How does an individual on here, whom is new, write to another person or more, via wall messages? Can these be seen by others whom write to them, over time?
Hi hemcot4, Once you post 10 messages on the forums, you will be able to message other members on their wall. Yes, wall messages can be seen by other members of EC. Hope that answered your question.
Am I allowed to write to others besides the ones whom have responded back to me and those whom i’m a following as I find them very interesting ( besides, what they’d wrote made me instantly believe that they would be great friends to have, over time) ? Is it also too soon to follow others since I am still rather new on here?
