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Arousal ALL the time

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by AshdeD32, Dec 19, 2018.

  1. AshdeD32

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    Everytime I'm around my boyfriend, not to mention he is my first boyfriend. We are both very open to each other. But it doesn't matter what he does I just get very aroused by him. Like there is not a dry moment anytime I'm with him. What can I do to not be so wet all the time?
     
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    How long have you guys been together? Is it a bad thing that you are aroused by your boyfriend?
     
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    We have been together for 4 months. Like he's had experiences, he's my first boyfriend. But I mean it's everything almost that makes me aroused
     
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    It could be that since he’s your first boyfriend, everything is still new. Your arousal may decrease to the point where you may not be aroused all the time. Or, if being aroused all the time is still a concern, you could always talk to your doctor about it to see if there’s anything else going on.
     
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    Hey @AshdeD32,

    Please forgive my direct question, but have the two of you had sex yet? I ask because it could be significant that u might be becoming aroused in an anticipation of that activity whenever u r in his presence.

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    Wear a small pad. I'm serious.

    I second that having sex or otherwise releasing the tension should solve the problem too.