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Not female but very feminine

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by RavenK, Dec 17, 2018.

  1. RavenK

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    So, I'm genderqueer and I don't have an exact, explainable identify i feel like. Even though I don't like being called female, I am very feminine .My sex is female but I have no problem with my breasts, hair or body. It's confusing but is it normal? Does any genderqueer and/or NB feel like that, with no problem with their born feminine/masculine body? Nobody tends to talk about people like that, and I want to know if anyone does feel like that.
     
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    I, myself, am a male who doesn't really feel like a man, and often wish I was a woman. I have a somewhat feminine personality and I like to imagine myself being a woman. I am not totally girly though. I do like some masculine things. I am okay with my male body, but would also like to have a woman's body.
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    Well for me it depends on the day. That's how I know I'm fluid and not Trans. If I woke everyday feeling fem I would look to change. So I deal with the parts I have and change what I can on the outside but more importantly my fluid changes how I feel on the inside. I've leaned to embrace who I am at the time.
     
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    I’m not sure how I would define mine either. I mean male for sure, but I generally lean more feminine however some days I can be in the middle to masculine I guess. It’s so complicated at times because I don’t fit into the gender norm stereotypes, but I’m also not questioning my male identity. I just embrace my femininity as a man. I like to say (depending on where I am on the scale) I’m in my moon energy/sun energy today. Living in the Bible Belt it freaks them out and I love it lol.
     
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    Hi there! Not everyone has dysphoria when they realize that they are not their assigned gender at birth, some people can just feel it and know. And that's what I believe you're going through. Me personally, I have voice, facial hair, face, and upper body dysphoria. Before I knew that I had dysphoria, I knew that I always wanted to be a girl deep down. I remember watching Disney Channel on TV and imagining how my life would be like if I looked like them and sounded like a girl. For you, something similar can be happening. So bottom line, yes, what you are experiencing is definitely normal!
     
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    I totally understand how you feel it is very hard I kinda feel the same way sometimes would love to get to know you better
     
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    i feel comfortable with being a femme and never wished to be born male. i think it easier and more socially accepted for a fem to hook up with both gender than boys have it. it is easy for a gal to pack on a sexual appendage but boys can't add a sexual cave.