He said “Yes”

This was the first post. Absolutely terrified that my life was over. That I’d destroyed everything and that I would be ruined and alone for ever. In that time she and I have divorced, she has a new relationship and has done for a few years, and she is still my very good friend. My children are well balanced and I see them regularly. I’ve had a long term relationship with a guy, messed around with the guy in the post above and dated others, and found an amazing man a couple of years ago who is the absolute love of my life.

We clicked when we met and our life together is intimate, caring, trusting, and loving but also equal. We have talked about marriage and children and are on the same page, and he has met and is adored by my kids.

And when I asked him to marry me this weekend. He said Yes.

Life has a habit of throwing curve balls. Sometimes they knock you over or knock you out for a bit. But be strong and true to yourself and things can work out.

I’m the happiest I’ve ever been.

 

Thank you! Champagne has been drunk already and more to come over Christmas.

Be true to yourself. Stick to your values and principles and don’t let anyone tell you how you should or shouldn’t act or be. Be individual. Be yourself. And others will love you for you. Xx

 

It really is. He’s not perfect but it’s one of the many things I love about him. His imperfections and mine mean we know who each other are and we love each other regardless.

 

Thank you! I don’t hold myself out to be anything other than an ordinary guy who just wants an “ordinary” relationship and life with another guy who loves me, cares about me and trusts me. Someone to explore life with and build a home and family with, and I’ve found him.