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Anxiety About Sharing

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Mia Mize, Dec 5, 2018.

  1. Mia Mize

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    I know it sounds sad but I try not to get my hopes up so I just don't really hope. So anything really would make me happy.
     
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    Aww :frowning2:. What would you really like though? If you could wish for anything?
     
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    What I really want is my grandfathers 1969 VW Bettle. I have named it Eddie and it is my dream car. I and every one of my family members know that I want it, but I won't get it. It is in the will for my uncle but everyone knows that it is my car. He is a very sexist old man and I won't get that car either till he dies or it will just sit so still it rots.

    Other than the car that comes with a mini rant anything that someone thinks about me makes me so wildly happy.
    What about you? What are hoping for?
     
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    :astonished: I love the classic vw beetle it’s my dream car too haha. Well if it helps I think you are a lovely person :slight_smile:.

    Ideally I’d love this dress that I have my eye on and have done for ages but I know I won’t get that. I’m going to Iceland next year so a nice warm coat would be nice.
     
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    Warm coat is always a good idea. Not for where I live, but just about every where else.
    and I love classic cars so much. I love the sound of old metal doors. I know it's weird but not unheard of.
     
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    I visited Arizona (Grand Canyon) earlier in the year and yeah I can’t imagine the need for a warm coat lol. Old cars and motorbikes are a big love of mine.
     
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    I don't like sport bikes. I think they can be fun but I prefer good old fashion motorcycles. And I like old street rods. Model Ts and muscle cars. They have history and such a culture around them. And yes, Arizona is SO HOT! Coming from someone who over heats at 80 degrees. Ugh its December and I am just now wearing a zip up sweater.
     
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    Same give me a nice classic Harley or Indian any day. I’m into hot rods and muscle cars aswell. I’ve always wanted a Dodge Charger :slight_smile:
     
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    Mia Mize, I think @silverhalo was right, that you opened up for a reason, and your intuition was probably good. I mean, naturally you are anxious now, but it could wind up being a really good thing. Was it just chance that the two of you skipped out on the same day? Hmm.
     
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    I have had situations like this, and afterwards it's really scary but it's just one of those things that happens without you knowing it, someone just says the right thing at the right time, makes you feel really comfortable and before you know it, it's come out of your mouth.
     
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    This goes both to OP and @silverhalo I've had it happen more times than what I can count. Yes it's quite unnerving and it has the potential to go wrong, but in the end it is relieving. Especially when you haven't talked to anybody about these things.
     
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    yeah, we have been planning dropping that class for a while and we finally did it and neither of us told our rides to come early. We have been getting closer and that day we both shared a lot. U'm feeling better about it though.
     
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    That was the worst part was that when it was all coming out I was weirded out by it, but it was weird that I felt like I could trust her.
     
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    I like those too, but also old trucks, classic cars are my favorite.
     
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    Yeah like, hmm why am saying all of these things. I'm glad you are feeling a bit better about it. Have you spoken to her since?
     
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    Yeah I have and we text, and have a class together next semester. But even now it feel nice to know that someone knows because people will start talking about things and Ill get quiet. The fact that some one actually asked me about me is what started it all.
     
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    And that's probably how you knew you could trust her because she noticed and she bothered to ask.
     
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    Did you feel that anxiety when you shared to people?