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First Date!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by CosmicWolf, Oct 1, 2018.

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  1. Destin

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    The easiest ways to initiate a first kiss are either walking them back to their car and standing close to them before they get in, which makes it pretty obvious what you want before they leave - or hugging them when you're alone and instead of pulling away completely afterwards just look them directly in the eyes while still holding on to them, and then after like two seconds go for the kiss.
     
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    Well she doesn't have a car (we are in highschool she is a junior and I'm a senior) so the kissing before she gets in her car won't work. And usually we aren't alone and able to hug, she isn't huge on PDA at school so that probably wouldn't be the best time to kiss her. So really the problem is we just don't get any time completely alone. Which is why I hope to get that on the weekend at her place (assuming I can go). If it isn't too cold we might be able to go to this walking trail near her. That would give us some time alone and it has some nice places where we could stop which would provide the opportunity.
     
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    Update: I gave her one of my hoodies the other day. She hasn't taken it off since then. Also now the hood is blue cuz of the dye in her hair. I probably won't ever get it back so it doesn't really matter. And I mean is it really even a good relationship if you don't lose a hoodie or two?
     
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    Love this.
     
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    Update: My dad agreed to drive me to my gf's place on Sunday. Gonna spend the whole day with her and I am so excited. This is really what we needed. We never get quality time together cuz we only really see each other at school and then a couple hours for dates, and then we FaceTime, but it's not the same. Can't wait for it to be Sunday!
     
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    So it sounds like your dad is pretty much OK with it all, is that right? You know how parents get overprotective.
     
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    Wow, I'm so happy for you both, pleased it's still going well.Rade XX
     
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    Just lying here in bed reading throughout this whole thread to say your relationship is so admirable!! I really wish I dated when I was in high school but doubt I’d have this pure of an experience haha, I’m sending all my good vibes your way
     
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    Eventually the hoodie will stop smelling like you and she will return it for some refill. And then it will smell like her and you won't be able to take it off. Etc etc it will be so totes adorbz that we will all melt.
     
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    He is mostly fine with it. I mean he doesn't seem too enthusiastic about having to drive me places but so long as I pay the gas money he is ok with it. And I get the feeling he doesn't completely approve of my gf, but he hasn't really said much about it.
     
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    She returned it today cuz it stopped smelling like me. Gonna wear it now and then give it back on the weekend. Note to self get more blue hoodies. Lol anything I give her is gonna come back blue cuz her hair dye wears off on it.
     
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    Everything about the two of you is so freaking cute! :relaxed:

    I'm glad to hear you'll be getting together on Sunday.
     
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    Gkad you guys get the weekend together
     
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    In a way it's a good thing that he's having you pay for the gas. It means you're not just a pampered princess. Consider: he was probably in the same situation once (going on first dates) and he wasn't pampered. This way he can respect you as more of an equal.

    Re the gf, you might be right, but whether or no, it's good that he holds his tongue on this one, and he knows it. Again, he remembers his own parents' behavior and wants to do better. Thank him for it.

    I think you're in a pretty good place right now, and we all love to read stories of actual sane people behaving reasonably. (Yay for that!) Warning: there will be some tears eventually. For whatever reason. When it happens, think back on this warning and remember: every day is just practice for doing better tomorrow.
     
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    Glad you're dad accepted your relationship with your GF
     
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    Today was Amazing!!

    We just chilled in her room watching tv. She has a tv right across from her bed so we just layed there cuddling while watching Brooklyn Nine-Nine. Also B99 needs to release the new season soon cuz the suspense is killing me.

    And I finally kissed her! It was a bit awkward the first time... Unfortunately I did not calculate for both of us having glasses on, which makes kissing while laying down very hard. But after the first time, I did it again later without the glasses and it went a lot smoother. Time flew by so fast I wish the day wasn't over already.

    I also gave her this necklace that I picked up at a craft fair yesterday. It is a glass heart with ribbons of green and yellow throughout. She really liked it.
     
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    I'm so freaking happy for you! You finally got to kiss her! I'm smiling so much because of how cute it is, but I bet you were (and are) smiling a heck of a lot more. :relaxed:

    I think that there's always something that makes a first kiss somewhat awkward. I can see where glasses might get in the way. For me, it was the effort it took to keep my hair out of the way. Now, I always have some hair ties on me when my girlfriend and I are together, just in case.
     
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    I think I'll just melt now. CW you are sure a good friend to your gf.

    Oh and I so remember the glasses thing. Brings back (good) memories.
     
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    How are you 2 doing ?
     
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    We are doing good. I got sick for a few days so I haven't been on much since last Tuesday. My gf was great though. On Wednesday she brought a blanket to school and just cuddled with me in the corner during lunch. I took the rest of the week off school and missed her a lot but she kept checking in on me. I'm starting to feel better now though.
     
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