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what to do when you have a crush on a friend

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  1. Diane05

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    help I have a crush on a friend of mine that I never thought I would like, and it just hit me in the middle of one of our conversations. Also most people now that I really hate being hugged or touched by other people so she does it all the time and it is really staring to mess with me. I do not know her sexuality, but I am pretty sure she is straight.
     
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    Ugh I like one of my friends too and it is killing me inside. She is taken by a guy but I do know she likes girls.
     
    #2 illbehere, Nov 7, 2018
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    Same boat here, I am in love with this friend of mine who lives in another country, he is gay too but i don't know if he is into me or not, he is the only gay friend that I have and I don't want to loose him.
     
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    I feel the same way I still like my crush and i thought I was over her. Guess I was wrong big time
     
    #4 Jamie92203, Nov 7, 2018
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    I'm trying to get ever mine but there is no damn way that is happening any time soon.
     
    #5 illbehere, Nov 7, 2018
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    That's how I feel @illbehere It kills me I couldn't tell her I love her she is Straight.
     
    #6 Jamie92203, Nov 7, 2018
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    Mine likes girls too but she has a boyfriend. She's just so amazing and adorable and ugh I could treat her so much better than he does.
     
    #7 illbehere, Nov 7, 2018
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    That's how I feel about my crush. I can treat her better but only if she likes girls.
     
    #8 Jamie92203, Nov 7, 2018
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    That's a tough situation. You can ask leading questions about movies or music that refer our sexuality like the L word or music by Alex Dobkin and many others. LOL... you could ask her about Katy Perry's song, I kissed a girl and I liked it :slight_smile: Good luck with this, I did fall in love with my best friend and we're still together.
     
    #9 KarenLyn, Nov 9, 2018
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    Awwww that’s so cuteee
     
    #10 illbehere, Nov 9, 2018
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    i know right
     
    #11 Jamie92203, Nov 9, 2018
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