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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alice89, Oct 18, 2018.

  1. Alice89

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    Hi everyone
    I’m after some help finding websites that sell women’s clothing that would fit and look nice on a 5 foot 10 gender fluid guy. I’m about a size 14/16 (uk) but have broad shoulders so I have no idea what style would look nice on me.

    Please help I’m open to any and all suggestions
     
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    Hey, Have you tried 'Jigsaw?' It's aimed at women mainly, But I buy some of my outfits from there, It's great if you like luxury nice looking clothes for relatively cheap prices. Try it out if you haven't already!
     
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    Thanks I’ll take a look cheers
     
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    Sweaters (jumpers for you guys I guess) are always a good choice. The baggier ones are good a day when you maybe don't want your shoulders so prominent. Also, they are very versatile. I'm not sure how much you are comfortable with but throwing them on with a skirt works well on a more feminine day. The only real way to find what you like though is to go out and try clothes on.
     
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    I do like a nice skirt. and I think that my legs are my best feature so showing them off is a plus. I have never really thought about sweaters but you make a good point so maybe I’ll give it a try. Thank you :slight_smile:.
     
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    Have you considered shaving your legs too? If you wear a skirt that might look nice and help you feel feminine.
     
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    I have shaved my legs before and have been toying with the idea of doing it again. It does take a lot of time though lol and I tend to get a bit of shaving rash but that might just be down to me sucking at shaving. Lol.
     
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    It takes practice for sure. I still deal with rashes and stuff as well. It doesn't meant you're bad at it.
     
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    Aww thank you that makes me feel better. One of the biggest reasons for not shaving anymore was because summer came so I started wearing shorts and felt really self conscious that people would make fun of me especially people at work :/
     
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    That sucks. Plenty of men shave. I mean, swimmers do it all the time. No one would make fun of Michael Phelps right?
     
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    That’s true. I’m going to do it :slight_smile: i should do it for me, to make me feel more like who I really am :slight_smile:.
     
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    You should if YOU want to!
     
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    For the record, I still shaved my last summer as a guy, and wore shorts. Nobody cared about my legs being smooth. :slight_smile:
     
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    -You can shorten longer hair with hair clippers before razor shaving.
    -Always shave in a warm shower or bath.
    -Use a loofah, washcloth, sponge or body scrub to exfoliate your skin to prevent ingrown hairs. Do this before shaving and also every few days when you shower.
    -Hair conditioner makes a really good lubricant for preventing razor burn.
    -Pat dry and apply a good lotion or oil with plenty of vitamin E.
    -If there is a really sensitive razor bump area, a lotion with salicylic acid can help. This would typically be something like an acne face moisturizer.
    -Enjoy your sexy self!
     
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    For the record, I have always thought men who shaved were attractive. I think it looks great so I don't know why anyone would make fun of you for that.
     
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    Thank you everyone for such kind support and help. I woke up this morning and read all your kind words and reading them has given me so much confidence to do what I need to to be me. I never thought I could feel this accepted by anyone so to find friendly people who care is amazing. Thank you all you are all beautiful people.
     
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    I wouldn't be to worried about the shaving thing. Especially if it's keeping you from wearing something you want to wear. Plus Silky smooth legs on fresh sheets and fuzzy pajamas is one of my favorite things in the world.
     
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    That does sound amazingly good to me.
     
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    I thought I’d give everyone an update.......... I did it I shaved my legs and it feels amazing :slight_smile:. @UMedusa I did what you said about the conditioner and it felt so much better then previous times so thank you :slight_smile:. And again thank you to everyone
     
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    I am glad you feel better about yourself! That is always the main goal.