Hi, for a while now i have wanted to try oral sex with a man but since i don't really want to get into a relationship it would probably be via a casual encounter and im terrified of STD's as much as i want to give a man oral. Is the risk really high from oral and is using a condom during oral a thing?
Oral is the lowest risk thing you can do other than just handjobs - yes people use condoms for oral but a lot of guys don't like that since it decreases the feeling.
There is nothing more satisfying than seeing a guy cum either through handjob or oral.... I thinks it's fairly safe Rade
not sure why but i have a craving for it like i know it sounds pretty stupid but if a guy was to take his out then i would probably be all over it i just find them that attractive. I would like to try one day but sadly most of the gay guys i have come across have been the giver types.
It’s not uncommon. Many guys like to do it. It’s not stupid. If it’s what you like or want, nothing stupid about that
It depends which STI you are talking about For HIV, the risk is null. Not something you have to worry about. For syphilis and gonorrhea, those are your real concerns. Chances are that your first encounter would be fine, but the chance of catching something is very real with oral sex. Good news is that there are things that you can do to manage the risks 1. Get tested! Have you gotten tested before? If not, then go and get one done. You want to do it now so you are familiar with the process and you can truly know if you are STI free or not. Do not sleep with other people before you get tested. 2. Don't brush your teeth right before you meet up with someone. If you care about your breath, use mouth wash. 3. Yes, you can always use a condom. A lot of guys don't like it, but if you want to use one they sell flavored condoms for this reason alone. Go buy some or get some from your local planned parenthood or LGBT center. 4. It doesn't bring the risk up too much, but if you avoid cum that will also help reduce risk 5. GET TESTED at least once a year. Like said above, very common. Sucking dick is fun as hell so no shame. Enjoy it if you can
i appreciate it ! i feel like the risks might be too much for me since i always worry about my health i should probably wait until i get into a commited relationship although that means obviously a certain level of commitment when i just want to try it out -_- i know im clean personally since i have never actually been with anyone who wasn't clean at the time and i was tested since i had my last relationship. Cheers guys anyway i appreciate the help
If it helps, I used to be kind of a man whore for years and never got a STI, even though I used a condom for oral exactly once (I consistently used them for anal.) The problem isn't sensation for the "top", it's more about it being disgusting to suck on a condom (the flavored ones are gross, too.) Regarding syphilis and gonorrhea, they're nasty, but a couple shots of penicillin G will get rid of those if you ever got them.
Its actually a bit easier here in the states. I got it once (keep in mind I have been with more than 100 guys so the odds are pretty good). Got tested, got diagnosed, was prescribed one single pill, all symptoms stopped after one day and had to stop having sex for 2 weeks. Got tested again and I was done. Its definitely something to still watch over, but not something to be super scared of.
Hey You can do some oral that doesn't involve the penis in your mouth and contact with semen. Depending on the guy, this can be just fine. I have a casual friend that we just do very light stuff that includes a little bit of nibbling and licking in sensitive areas along with some strategic hand work. It can be as stimulating as anything and some safer. There is still a chance for some STI's but less.
I don’t think I’d have the self control for that. If my mouth got anywhere near the penis, I’d have to put it in.
totally with you on that one if a guy dropped his trousers in front of me i would be on my knees infront of it haha
Hey. Sometime try it my way. Take a couple hours on a guy and never quite just go for it. Slowly tease him...You can do this totally safely and get a guy off like you wouldn't believe.
i think my attraction to it is that i would like to just have it in my mouth im not really sure if getting the guy there is the end goal... it's ... confusing haha
I have given oral to a guy in the past. But I really enjoy watching a guy orgasm, there is something really special about that....
it is mesmerizing i can't help wondering what it tastes like though even though i know it would be pottentially dangerous for me being a hypochondriac. sadly i don't think i will ever have the courage or freedom to do it and im not sure any guys would find me attractive enough but defiantly on my all time fantasy list.
The actual dick tastes like nothing, just skin, stick a finger in your mouth and it's the same thing. The cum I guess could be described as melted marshmallow texture and either salty or sweet depending on their diet.
yeah unfortunatly that kind of test requires a certain amount of commitment and i don't know if i could have a relationship with a guy really i have only really ever dated girls. In theory i know how it tastes but i think it is hard to know until you have tasted it. hehe yummy cummy in my tummy but seriously thank you for all your advice guys