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Do all bisexual guys like threesomes.

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  1. earthguy

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    I was wondering is there other Bi guys that are not in to threesomes? My problem with threesomes is that looks kind of awkward try to have sex with two people at same time.
     
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    I am a bi woman. But since there are as many preferences as fish in the sea, I would have to say no. Wanting threesomes and being bi do not go hand in hand. Plenty of bi guys are monogamous or do not enjoy group sex. As a bi woman, I would not be necessarily opposed. But that is my preference and I am sure plenty of men AND women would not agree.
     
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    Yes please, it's one of my fantasy's. It would be great fun, with two other guys. But it's hard enough finding one guy let alone two!! LOL....
    When I was with my ex wife i talked to her about a threesome, another guy joining us, can't understand why she was not keen ha ha!!! So she left me for a straight guy!! Oh I'm so devastated (no not really) life goes on....
     
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    I'm sure not everyone likes it, but threesomes and orgies, are pretty amazingly great.
     
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    I had a threesome with two women once and loved it. I would love it with a guy and a girl or two guys someday
     
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    I hear from people that having a threesome could ruin your relationship with your partner. I will be honest i did fantasy about having a threesome but I find some fantasy are better of left as fantasy.

    Maybe if I had a threesome I would enjoy it. So bottom line would be Don't knock it till you try it.
     
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    My threesome predated my marriage
     
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    I agree that I think threesomes can be fun if everyone is agreeable. I think it would be fun. But not all bi people, men or women, like them.
     
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    Hey earthguy,

    Do all bisexual guys like threesomes.

    I doubt it.
    First off, "all" is an absolute, so when you say "all" it means ALL!
    I doubt that any group is all into anything. Threesomes are all about the sex, and I'm sure there are some (a lot of) gay guys who are into true love and monogamous relationships. To me, threesomes are cheap and trashy. It bothers me that so many LGBTQ+ people see it as being all about sex -- it's not.

    Hugs,
     
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    That's not necessarily true. Obviously it's a sex activity but I've been in one with two friends where it ended up being more about feeling a connection and caring about each other than the actual sex.
     
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    Erm... I guess so.
     
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    I think if someone identities as being polyamorous one's attitude towards these things is different. I believe it is possible to love more than one person, and sex can be a part of that relationship, so having sex with multiple people I loved at once is not something I object to.
     
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    Whenever one asks a question about a group of people beginning with “Do all _____ people...” the answer is always no.
     
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    Probably not all because that is a lot of people to count for.

    I personally enjoy threesomes a whole lot

    If a threesome breaks someone's relationship then they had waaaay bigger problems to worry about.

    My husband and I have had multiple of them and still going strong as ever :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd also caution people interested in threesomes to actually know the person they're doing it with, because there are some kind of predatory couples on apps and stuff that basically want a threesome to do something too intense to do to each other...and they just use people for whatever unpleasantness they think would be fun to do but not receive. Like one time when I was meeting two guys from an app one answered the door holding this like spiked sex paddle thing and I just noped out of that real quick and walked away.
     
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    @smurf I not saying having a threesome would ruin all relationship and from what you said I think I try it some time.
     
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    The hell? How are these people real damn.

    Def talk with each person about what their expectations are for the encounter. People find talking about sex as weird or awkward, but this is far more awkward.
     
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    I had the desire/interest in the past to engage in one but I ever did.

    My former friend and his FWB female friend and myself I had proposed to my former friend, he seemed interested but his FWB female friend turned it down.

    I also mentioned to the same friend in drunk talk of him, myself, a mutual male friend, and the same FWB female friend to have a 4-some. That never happend.

    And when I mention mmfm or mmmf I mean just heterosexual sex acts I'll say. I didn't have fantasies of my male friends and I engaging in group sex.
     
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    Not really interested in them tbh I would rather have one person
     
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    I’ve been in one with 2 girls multiple times with the same 2 girls. Eventually for me the novelty of r seemed to wear off. Now as a bi male I would do one with another guy and girl. I feel like having a close female friend there would relax a first time gay experience.