How much of a minority are sides really? I know (or I think) we're not allowed to mention specific dating apps here but does anyone know if any of those apps actually cater to sides specifically. What I'm saying is, if you identify as a 'side' or want someone who is a 'side' can you filter out all the 'tops' and 'bottoms' automatically in order to save time?
Bummer, well that's offputting. I guess I'll have to deal with people accusing me of a being a prude and wasting my time.
I think if you put that information into the “about me” section I doubt people will call you anything or waste more of your time than others.
That's like a straight person saying "why would homosexuality even exist." It's a preference. That kind of mentality is exactly why I am hesitant to even try.
I know we're not allowed to mention the names of apps, but I've found that guys on apps aimed at "bears" seem to be more open minded and less dismissive towards guys who aren't into anal. So if you like older and hairy guys then you might get some more luck.
Tough luck for me. I'm into lanky twinks such as myself. Well maybe referring to myself as a twink is delusional at this point but definitely lanky. I don't mind a tasteful amount of hair but I couldn't see myself with anyone who is massive or covered in a thicket of hair.
