I'm worried about something .I've never had or have sexual or romantic fantasies about anyone. When I close my eyes and try to imagine situations. There's nothing there and it's just black. Like I really have to force myself to see anything. But it's wierd because I still have crushes on guys and girls. I'm really worried about this .Is there anyone else like this or is there something wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with it - you might just be a more realistic and less imaginative person. A lot of people's fantasies have no face in them, because they can't imagine the details of a face without thinking of a real person and the mind just leaves it as a blank/faceless body. For you maybe you can't imagine the body either so it just leaves everything blank and can't create the fantasy. In real life though you can see everything about the person and don't have to imagine stuff, so the crush develops.
I find this interesting. I have fantasies all the time. I just looked over at the Librarian and had a quick fantasy. Actually its one of my favorite parts of my mind/imagination. I encourage it in myself.
I am VERY imaginative. Probably too imaginative. I also have anxiety and this can be hard to deal with as I sometimes imagine the worst. But that's just me. There is nothing wrong with not being this way.
