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Always falling for a straight girl

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sammi78, Jun 26, 2018.

  1. Sammi78

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    I'm a 40 year old lesbian. I always gall.in love (and fall hard) for straight woman. I can't seem to ever meet a lesbian, and I'm too shy to pit myself out there too much! Frustrating.
     
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    It seems like a lot of lesbians who prefer feminine women have this issue, so you're hardly alone--it's very common.
     
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    Very true. And I do fall for feminine woman so that makes a lot of sense. Thank you!!
     
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    I am in the exact same boat it is frustrating.
     
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    Unfortunately this is a very common problem. I too have fallen for this trap. Hopefully it's not a vicious cycle.
     
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    Lets hope ️‍
     
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    i always fall for straight girls.. and i think it's because all girls are straight!!! the only lesbian in the world is me (obviously joking ::stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) but sometimes it feel like it's so true...
    and the funny thing is a lot of straight girls have told me that many lesbians have hitted on them! i never had the chance to meet any lesbian or bi girl..
    i'm so depressed
     
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    I know how you feel. I almost always end up falling for straight girls or girls who are already in a relationship.
     
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    Seems to be a very common problem unfortunately. I’ve been in the same boat many times . The one time I fell for a bisexual girl, she was already head over heels for another girl
     
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    I hate it so much. There’s this girl who I really like and she knows I’m bi but she doesn’t know I like her. She talks to me about all these guys and I sit there nodding my head and screaming inside.
     
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    There is this one girl and when ever we are with each other at first it was flirty type of thing. But she says she is staight and useually talks to guys. Its a real shame because she is an amazing person. We are only great friends.
     
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    same! I guess it’s better to be her friend than nothing at all- still super frustrating though
     
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    Yeah i know it is good to be friends but since finishing school a few months ago we haven't seen each other. It is confusing and ducking annoying
     
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    Plus she doesnt know i am gay
     
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    ahhh no, sorry to hear :frowning2: maybe you could arrange to see her, even if it is just as friends
     
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    Yeah that's a good idea i wouldnt ruin the friendship by saying something stupid