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Teammate?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by AshdeD32, Jun 23, 2018.

  1. AshdeD32

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    This girl I like is on my sports team. We've known each other for about a year now and I recently started liking her about a month ago. I think she's realizing I like her because with both tease each other all the time. Last week she started a streak with me on snapchat. Sometimes I think she is into me but the next I feel like she just see's me as a teammate. I am not upfront, no one knows I am Bisexual, but I know I have put some things out there that make me seem like I'm gay. The girl I like did come out about two weeks ago but I did over hear her talking about how she was going to ask this girl out but she didn't. This next weekend we are at a far tournament so we are all going to be in the same hotel. So I only hope something happens this weekend.
    I am not out to ANYONE! And I am very shy about my feelings.

    Is there anything I should do or try to do? Anything else I could like say or do to point out I like her?
     
  2. DRobs

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    Ask her to be your roommate for the tournament. Tell her that you are gay or questioning.
     
  3. AshdeD32

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    Sucky thing is we all stay with our families in the hotel rooms. I feel like if it comes down to a point where its a special moment. I could see myself actually coming out to her and saying that I might be questioning. Is there anything else I should do ?
     
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    Go for it. You only have 1 life to live.
     
  5. AshdeD32

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    Well. I fear failure and I can't change that about me.