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How Do You Flirt?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by AshdeD32, Jun 18, 2018.

  1. AshdeD32

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    I know everyone flirts in the own ways. I have different ways of flirting. But I want to know how you guys flirt?
     
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    when it comes to flirting im basically a big bumbling travesty who couldn't make things any more painfully obvious :upside_down:
     
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    With humor or trying to find a common interest.
     
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    I mostly ramble about Dungeons and Dragons. I was recently incredibly fortune to find someone for which that was very effective.
     
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    I don't flirt because I don't know how.

    And if I try to, it winds up being like this:

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    I always see to flirt because I'm just trying to be nice. Then I freak out when I realize that I've been leading people on
     
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    *seem. I really hate myself sometimes
     
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    Compliments, jokes, and eyes. Compliments are nice in general, but when it comes to flirting I'll give a more in-depth compliment and compliments on things other than just physical, like personality and likes. Jokes are always good, usually, unless they're just ehh, in that case I'd be immediately uninterested in flirting anyway. haha. And I say eyes, because well I've found that I obviously make certain eye movements when I'm interested and flirting, such as just casually checking them out. I guess it kinda lets off the vibe that I'm into them and usually is a good indicator on if they're feeling it too. I feel like all the girls I've talked to on that level have always mentioned recalling me checking them out, which clearly worked on some level.

    I've been in a relationship for awhile now so I don't really flirt with anyone or haven't really flirted with anyone in a long time other than my girlfriend. And I would say with her I still do all the things mentioned above plus more. It's different though after being in a relationship for awhile, for me I guess it's made me step it up more, and I know she wants me/is into me so the level of flirting with her is just infinite. Or maybe it's just the romantic in me, I do cheesy things often like notes, flowers, candy, etc. haha. She even jokes about it, she's not so much a romantic herself, but she likes it.
     
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    This use to happen to me all the time and still does on occasion. haha. Then they flirt, try to get your number, or ask you on a date unexpectedly and you're thinking whaaaaa? haha. But after thinking about it, it's totally because they got the wrong vibe from your niceness and respectfulness.
     
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    Nice shoes. Wanna ___?
     
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    I don't. I've never had the confidence for flirting. The few times I tried as a kid it was ignored entirely.
     
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    omg so funny! :joy:

    i laugh at this but I actually dont know how too lol
     
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    Nice to know I'm not the only one. :slight_smile:
     
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    Omg that is so sweet! If you weren't already taken I'd want you to be my girlfriend!
     
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    Wow! First, you were teaching us how to kiss.. and now you're demonstrating how to flirt! lol thank you master :slight_smile:
     
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    haha. I'll take that as a compliment, thanks.
     
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    Thank you! :bow:
     
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    automatically. I just flirt with everyone :grin:
     
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    Same here. I am very friendly that way.
     
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    I sort of do it without thinking. I think it's because, in my experience, the most effective way of flirting is to show a genuine interest in the other person... and I think people are fascinating, so it's kind of hard to turn off.