How to "Look" More Gay

Waiting for my order. I purchased a "double venus symbol" necklace myself. Can't wait to wear it! Might go to pride so I'll definitely wear it then.

 

This reminds me of the first time I tried to go to a gay club. I stood in front of the mirror for like an hour, just desperately thinking "DO I LOOK GAY ENOUGH???" Because I easily "pass" as straight, and it's a blessing and a curse. (Long story short, the club was empty and I went home in disgrace.)

I mean, the stereotypes would probably be a short haircut, like a pixie cut, or cut super short on one side in an asymmetrical style. (I mean, everyone has a pixie cut these days, but a slightly higher percentage of them are lesbians.) Also, most girls I know who have colored hair (blue, pink, silver, purple, whatever) are gay. (And short/non-fake nails, obviously.)

For clothes, they say leather jackets, plaid shirts, and henleys are common lesbian staples. But again, everyone wears those. You could also do some subtle rainbow stuff, like rainbow socks or shoelaces or something, if you don't want to go full rainbow.

But like the others said, it's probably more about how you interact with other girls that will clue them in. Prolonged eye contact and smiling is never a bad plan. And when I'm approached by a girl I find attractive, I'll immediately find myself drawing myself up tall and fixing my hair and straightening my clothes and putting on a smile, and I have to assume that someone interested in me would notice that.

 

Oh btw, for femme girls, don't give up your image, you're so cute with the long hair and in your femininity! I mean, whoever you are, just be yourself and be comfortable in it and happy, because that's the most sexy and will find you a partner that will love you for you not who you pretend to be! There is nothing like someone loving you for who you are