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Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by AshdeD32, Jun 14, 2018.

  1. AshdeD32

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    I've known this girl for almost a year now and I have just recently started having a crush on her. Nothing's changed and I have no clue why I have just now recently started liking her. Is there any reason forfor?
     
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    We don’t know either of you so we can’t really answer that, but with time you usually get closer to someone and build trust etc so attraction can come later. It’s not always when you meet them for the first time.
     
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    I just wish I knew if she liked me. I want to kiss her but I am not out about anything. and II don't want to tell her I like her and she not like me.
     
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    Ah ok, so she doesn’t know you like girls? What about her, do you know if she likes girls?
     
  5. AshdeD32

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    I do know she likes girls. We've talked about it a few times. She doesn't know I like girls too. But I am hoping she's realizing that I am liking her. I feel like I have flirted with her and I feel like it's REALLY obvious.
     
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    How about just be straight to her? Sometimes we tell ourselves not to assume anything as we could read it wrong.
     
  7. AshdeD32

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    I'm a very shy person with my feelings. Everyone tells me to just be forward with her and I can't. I wish there was other advice. I am very shy and I have had problems in the past being straight up with people.