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coming out feels like falling in love...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CL1990, May 31, 2018.

  1. CL1990

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    i know this sounds incredibly cheesy but i feel like everytime i come out to someone i feel i high and a sense of love that pretty much feels like falling in love (with myself i guess...?)

    its very strange because i have nothing to compare it to because i have never been in love or in a relationship (just crush or attraction)...anyone feels like this?
     
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    I think it has the same kind of adrenaline. It gives me an odd spark of energy similar to the feeling I get when I talk to someone I have a crush on or am in a relationship with. I'm not sure why it happens, but I feel it too! They're both very exciting, and sometimes scary too.
     
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    CL1990....For me at least, it is the feeling that I get because I know that the secret that controlled my life for so very long is utterly dead and gone. That feels so good!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Well, that's good! Usually people feel sick to their stomach or want to pass out, but your body is definitely reacting to it positively. Consider yourself lucky :slight_smile:
     
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    thanks guys!!for me its defenitly that high although that means that i feel like i need to keep coming out to get that feeling again and again and sometimes its all a bit overwellming!
     
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