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What do you like in a guy/girl?

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  1. Love4Ever

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    So I am sure this has been discussed before but I figure as long as people are game it would still be fun.
    What are you attracted to in a guy or girl? What's your type physically or personality wise? Obviously if you're into both then just post what you like about either.:slight_smile:
     
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    - Funny.
    - Sweet and caring.
    - Intelligent.
    - Sensitive.
    - Understanding.
     
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    Cute and girly but also sweet, adventurous and fun-loving :blush:
     
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    Personality: Being sincere, understanding, optimistic, a bit funny, at least one hobby he shares with me (and I have many of them) and not afraid of trying new things

    Physically: Guys with a similar height like me (+/- 180 cm), nice smile, neither fat or too slim, darker type (I'm blond and I like the contrast) and being around the same age as me
     
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    Cool. :grin: I love seeing everyone's different responses.
    I guess I should probably put mine or else that would be cheating.

    Girls: Tomboys! Sweet, sensitive, emotional, great sense of style, intelligent, extroverted, very affectionate, up for anything. I really love long blonde hair. :hugging:

    Guys:
    Longish, dark curly hair, killer eyes, romantic, gentle, isn't afraid to cry or be emotional, has an interest in less typical "male" hobbies i.e. cooking, decorating, gardening. Also enjoys intellectual pursuits.:blush:
     
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    Looks is the first thing that hooks me, but after that it's all about the personality, the charm, the intelligence, the warmth, the wit and humour, and the naughty, slightly risqué mind...and a very kind, considerate loving demeanour.
     
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    Guy: simple and understanding. Slim and tall. I want older than me. Less hairy.
    Girl: knows how to cook. Understanding and caring. Slim and sexy. Smart and confident.
     
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    wow good question. um.......wow hmm........ I hope this all makes sense.

    I haven't seriously dated a lot of ladies so. I like smaller ladies actually. I'm 5'4 so. [that's......about 163 cm] and small.

    and in general:

    I like glasses wearers. as they come off as intelligent. I'm also rather intelligent. but I'll admit I don't know everything about the world.
    I like funny people. and people who get me people I relate to. this is actually a reason I like the show 'big bang'. they don't quite fit into this world and neither do I. I'm kindof a sad negative person [though i've been making an effort to not be that person on here. also I have depression. i'm ok talking about it] so I'd want.........it's easier for me when someone else has it as that way I relate to them more then someone who doesn't.

    someone who's accepting. sweet........understanding. open minded of course.

    I'm a music lover so. and I don't expect to be taken out though that's nice. someone who cooks as I don't. quiet people the type I could go to a cafe w/ rather then a rock concert. an introvert probably.

    I'm a really physical person. but not everyone is so that's why I ask. but honestly yes I'd look for someone who is as well. I love hugs. and cuddling.

    I like emotional sensitive guys. and older then me. I'd like them to at least be of age to dr*nk even if they don't actually dr*nk.

    just. someone who looks comfortable. yeah the other day I saw this lady walking her dog and she looked. comfortable she was dressed casually. and i thought 'you seem like a cool person'.
     
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    I like a girl who is introverted, can hold meaningful conversations, and is ambitious. She should not be too energetic or bubbly all the time. Physically, I want her to be around my height or slightly shorter, have long dark hair and naturally strong eyebrows, wear little to no makeup, and not dress too femininely. I used to only be attracted to Chinese girls, as I am Chinese myself, but I've developed a crush on a Persian girl recently. Sometimes I want not to like her, but I really can't help it.
     
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    In guys, physically: Taller than me, really short beard or clean-shaved face, stocky build (not muscular, just big - beer belly is a plus), not too hairy. I have a thing for men with darker hair - either brown or black, salt 'n' pepper hair is a big turn-on). Any colour eyes, as long as they are able to look past my flaws :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:. Can wear glasses or not, it's not something I judge someone by.

    In girls, physically: Shorter than me, long hair or a cute pixie-style cut, slim build, though a bit of curves is still cute, must be clean-shaved "down there". Any colour eyes and hair, though I'm partial to darker haired girls.

    Both, personality-wise: Honest, faithful, caring, loving, must love animals, considerate, gentleman/lady, friendly, outgoing (since I'm introverted), good sense of humor, selfless, care-free but responsible, financially independent, including having their own car (guys as well as girls - I don't want to drive them around everywhere). I think that's it. A long list, I know, but I guess I have high standards and expectations, lol. :grin:
     
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    For me a guy that might look metro. Some facial hair is ok. But ultimately it’s their personality and how well I connect with them.
     
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    I like a guy to be normal sized like around 5'8, blond, clean shaven, kind eyes, and just a nice person. I like guys who enjoy being raggedy bags and staying home to watch movies with me. I like cuddlers and huggers that would rather be with me than go to a club or bar. I really prefer gentle guys. Im in love with this person but he doesnt love me back in that way :frowning2:


    I dont like alot of muscles or guys that do masc stuff, like fishing, hunting, camping, or sports. That stuff always becomes a competition, basically over who has a bigger pee-pee (sorry masc guys, but the phallic inferiority complex strikes again). I dont like guys who insist on wearing the pants all of the time. Ive seen way too many masc guys, treat their fem boyfriends like property.
     
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    Do you like Asian men? Ive seen alot of Asians that have this look.
     
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    Asian men as a whole would not be my first choice but have seen some attractive gay Asian men.
     
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    Persian girls are very pretty, they have the best hair.
     
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    Hm. I think we have a similar thread elsewhere or maybe it's only about looks? I can't remember.

    Personality:
    Patient.
    Kind and big-hearted
    Funny and doesn't take herself too seriously
    Enjoys intense intellectual conversations, but can also sit in silence
    Outdoorsy with a stellar internal GPS system (I don't have that!)
    Someone who is independent and has their own life already.

    Looks:
    I have a thing for unplucked, thick brows.
    Longish brown hair
    Nice hands
    Soft butch or feminine lumberjack or if Kate Spade was butch and wore flannel (mmmm)
    I like an older woman with soft lines on her face. <3
     
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    I think I like a girl who is eager and has an attitude (even if she's a bitch). someone I can share a laugh with and never stops me from smiling. I girls who are different from me so we can teach other new things and also have things in common
     
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    I agree. I love attitude! I like a no nonsense kind of woman.
     
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    - mentally stable
    - has good career aspirations
    - Loves knowledge and creativity
    - similar size height
    - likes walking
    - ginger hair


    But there's a woman RK who I already really like so can I just live with her forever?