does anyone else feel useless when they are giving a blow job abd are unable to make the guy finish. I do. Maybe I just need more practice
Did the guy express dissatisfaction? Did he say you were doing something wrong? Why did it end before he had an orgasm?
With some guys it is really hard to make them edjaculate yourself as they have grown so used to masturbating themselves to finish off. And dont feel bad if you dont know the other guys penis as well as he knows his own penis. He has had years and years of experience with his own penis. You have probably had just a few hours at best. But communication is a key thing about giving a good blowjob. Ask him what feels good... ask him (or judge by his reactions) what he wants you to do (lick the tip, take it deep, suck on it hard, caress the shaft gently, use your hand, allow him to take control etc etc). Did you also know that small moans/groans, on your part, would really add to the guys excitement while you give him a blowjob? Dont act like a porn star... just act like this is the best cake you have ever tasted. Dont worry too much about the ending either. I wonder how many guys really want their blowjob to end quickly?? Just focus on giving him a good time and, when he wants to end it, I dont see the issue with just allowing the guy to take the initiative and finish himself off either on your face on in your mouth (or on the floor... whatevz). If all else fails just say that you are inexperienced with blowjobs so they may have to teach you a thing or two... that REALLY gets some guys off, let me tell you.
Op here. It’s true, I’m not very experienced. Usually, after doing it awhile, we just move on to other things. One time, the guy guided me, and told me what he liked. I loved it and was able to make him finish in my mouth. It was an amazing experience, and I’d like to do that every time
I think it's important to accept that it will not happen. Some guys will explode like a volcano if you give them a blow job, but with others it just won't happen (for reasons already mentioned). It's not about you - it's about them. You're not inadequate and nor are they.
I know I can’t finish from oral. I love receiving it but I need something else for completion. It happens
